09/01/2025
Positive reinforcement / redirection is a vital strategy for improving behaviour. The word โnoโ is all too often used as a precursor to the undesired behaviour we donโt want to see. Most children and young people switch off when mentally when they hear that word. Itโs overused and often ineffective for managing behaviour.
Redirecting behaviour using more positive language which instead focuses on the actions we want to see, or rather the desired behaviour. For example below is one clients goal for the fortnight - you can clearly see that instead of phrasing the goal negatively with โno fightingโ weโve instead replaced it with โbe kind to each otherโ and then unpacked what that actually looks like, in terms of the actions I can take. Naturally - if youโre being kind youโre not going to be hurting another or using hurtful language. The key is to focus on the actions we want to see - always remaining positive in our language - instead of focussing on what we donโt want to see (stop this, no (that!)
Language is powerful when used more effectively.