12/08/2026
Most of the women I see are already undereating. That’s often part of what’s driving the problem, not the solution to it.
So when someone is told to lose weight without any support for how, the usual response is to restrict harder.
Eat less, train more, skip breakfast. And the fatigue gets worse, the sleep gets worse, and the weight doesn’t move — because the body is now getting even less of what it needs.
Weight isn’t irrelevant. But it’s rarely the first thing to work on, and handing someone a number without a plan isn’t advice — it’s unhelpful!
If you’ve been told to lose weight and don’t know where to start, the starting point is almost never eating less.
Comment FUEL and I’ll send you what undereating actually looks like in midlife.