05/06/2026
Are you a confident leader and still insecure in certain situations? Here is why.
Under pressure our brains want one answer.
You're confident or you're not.
But that's not how it works, and telling yourself it should be is adding pressure you don't need.
Confidence is situational.
You can lead a team with complete certainty and feel uncertain with a specific client, in a new environment, or when the pressure feels higher than usual. That doesn't exclude each other.
That's context.
Observe what's actually going on.
What's the trigger?
What's the situation?
That's far more useful than deciding once and for all whether you're confident or not.