Aruga Āwhina

31/07/2026

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27/07/2026

✨ MYTH MONDAY ✨
One of the biggest misconceptions about autism is that only boys can be autistic. For many women and girls, autism has historically been overlooked, misunderstood, or masked — leading to delayed diagnoses and years of feeling “different” without knowing why.

Autism can present differently in everyone, and many autistic girls become experts at masking their traits to fit societal expectations. The more we talk about these myths, the more understanding and acceptance we create 💛💜💙

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It’s MYTH MONDAY!

MYTH #5: ONLY BOYS CAN BE AUTISTIC

This is a common myth, I even believed it myself as a female adult, until I was diagnosed with Autism myself. There is a reason for this though and it stems across a few different platforms.

Firstly, most medical diagnoses were provided to males only back in the day. Early autism research was only conducted with male participants. As time has gone by, women and women’s health issues have become more prominent, but still have a way to go.

Autistic girls are often better at ‘masking’ or keeping things together, mimicking social behaviours to blend in and hide their autistic traits. Just call us chameleons!

Societal norms also have a part to play. If a male lines up their toys in an orderly fashion, people go ‘Oop, he could be autistic’ whereas a female lines up her toys, society says ‘Wow, she’s organised!’

The more we talk about these myths, the more they’re debunked, so get the word out!

17/07/2026

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13/07/2026

✨ MYTH MONDAY ✨
There’s a harmful stereotype that autistic people don’t feel emotions or empathy — but that couldn’t be further from the truth.

Many autistic and neurodivergent people experience emotions very deeply, sometimes so deeply that it can take longer to process and express them. Delayed emotional processing, alexithymia, and sensory overwhelm can all impact how emotions are shown outwardly — but that does not mean those emotions aren’t there.

Everyone processes feelings differently, and patience, understanding, and compassion go a long way 💛💙💜

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It’s MYTH MONDAY!

MYTH #4: AUTISTICS DON’T FEEL EMOTION

First of all, that’s a big fat lie.
Autistic people do feel emotion and empathy. Personally, I have alexithymia (unsure of what emotions I feel) and interoception issues (delay in processing sensory input). It can take days for the feeling to hit me.

But when that emotion or feeling is finally processed in my brain, the emotion or empathy hits me like a freight train. I can be angry, or sad, or even extremely happy, but it’s a delayed response.

Neurotypical folk generally process things a lot faster than neurodivergent people, so we can appear to be emotionless or unsympathetic. But people don’t see the delayed reaction, or when the reaction does happen, they are confused.

So autistic people do feel emotions and empathy, we feel them really strongly. Sometimes they’re overwhelming and we act out, or isolate ourselves. Everyone processes things differently at different rates and in different ways. Patience is key!

03/07/2026

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30/06/2026

TESTIMONIAL TUESDAY

Hearing feedback like this reminds us why we do what we do. At Aruga Awhina, we believe support should feel safe, understanding, and genuinely person-centred.

We’re incredibly grateful to the families and participants who trust us to walk alongside them in their journey. Thank you for your kind words and ongoing support

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“From the very beginning, the team at Aruga Awhina made us feel heard, supported, and genuinely cared for. Their kindness, patience, and understanding have made such a positive difference in our lives.

They always go above and beyond to create a safe and welcoming environment, and nothing ever feels like too much trouble. It’s comforting knowing we have a team who truly understands neurodiversity and supports us without judgement.

We’re so grateful for the support, encouragement, and connection we’ve received. Highly recommend Aruga Awhina to anyone looking for compassionate and person-centred care.”

— Melissa, QLD

29/06/2026

This is the third episode in our new series - Myth Mondays! Over the next couple of months, our myth focus will be on Autism, written by me (Amanda) from my experience with Autism. These are raw and real thoughts, debunking well-known myths and from the heart. Let us know your thoughts on these myths!


MYTH #3: AUTISM IS A SUPERPOWER

While there have been cases of Autistic Individuals being known as a Savant (think ‘Rainman’, people who can listen to a song then play it on piano, photographic memories and the like) the majority of Autistic people dont have this ability.

When executive dysfunction hits (not being able to shower, cook or clean) I definitely don’t feel like autism is a super power. It feels debilitating and embarrassing to not be able to do the thing that I know I was able to do previously.

This is where support helps, whether its from formal supports like an occupational therapist, or informal supports such as friends and family. By knowing the signs you need help, people can help build your skills.

The more we talk about the different parts of Autism and how each person experiences it, we create understanding and awareness. But remember, Autism is a spectrum, everyone experiences it differently. - Once you’ve met one Autistic person, you’ve met one Autistic person.

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26/06/2026

New Blog Post!

Caring for someone you love can be one of the most meaningful and rewarding roles a person can have. Whether you’re supporting a child, partner, parent, sibling or friend, caregiving often comes from a place of deep compassion, commitment and love. But while caring for others can be incredibly ful...

19/06/2026

New Blog Post!

Finishing school is a huge milestone in anyone’s life. It marks the beginning of a brand-new chapter filled with possibilities, growth and change. For people living with disabilities, as well as their families and support networks, this transition can feel both exciting and overwhelming at the sam...

18/06/2026