15/08/2026
A couple of years ago I heard about a breathwork facilitator who’d been to Hervey Bay and apparently said he wouldn’t come back unless 50+ people booked.
That stuck with me.
Not because there’s anything wrong with wanting a full room, or needing an event to make financial sense.
But there was something about the idea of, if there aren’t enough people, it’s not worth my while, that just felt a little too commercialised for me.
A little too transactional.
Like the value of the gathering suddenly depends on whether enough bodies are in the room.
Almost a bit, too bad, so sad, call me when there’s enough of you.
And I remember thinking, that’s just not how I want to do this.
Today was probably the perfect example.
A few people pulled out of our gathering here and, in the end, one person came.
I gave her the option to postpone and come along another time, because I didn’t want her expecting a group and then arriving to find out she was the only one there.
That can be a very different experience when you’re not prepared for it.
She chose to come.
So we sat.
We shared cacao.
We breathed.
And I was genuinely just as happy to hold that space for one person as I would’ve been for 10, 50 or 100.
Of course I love a full room.
There’s something pretty special about multiple people breathing together, the energy building, the space amplifying.
It’s unmatched.
And of course there are practical realities around time, energy and money.
But I never want numbers alone to decide whether another human being is worth showing up for.
And today reminded me of something else too.
You really never know what a day is carrying.
Sometimes the days that look small from the outside end up meaning far more than you could have known at the beginning.
Sometimes you think you know what the day is about…
and then life quietly shows you otherwise.
So yeah.
1 or 100.
I’ll light the fire.
People are worth it.
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