29/06/2026
"Your body keeps the score."
It's the title of a bestselling book. It's also become a popular phrase. But what does it actually mean?
The idea is that our bodies are influenced not only by what happens around us, but also by what happens within us. Our thoughts, emotions, stress and life experiences can all shape how we feel physically. It's a perspective shared, in different ways, by psychology, Chinese medicine and many mind-body approaches to health.
Take the throat, for example. Physically it's how we communicate. Energetically it's associated with the 5th (throat) chakra. If someone experiences recurring throat problems that don't improve as expected, there could also be an emotional component worth exploring - perhaps difficulty expressing themselves (even temporarily), or something left unsaid.
Does that mean every sore throat is caused by bottled-up emotions? I certainly don't think so. If you fall skiing and land on your shoulder (been there... ouch!), that's simply trauma. But if that shoulder never quite recovers despite appropriate treatment, it may be worth shifting perspective and asking whether there could be something more influencing healing - physical, emotional, or both.
For me, this perspective is absolutely not about blame; it's about curiosity. Could our emotional lives influence our physical health? Could understanding ourselves a better support healing alongside appropriate medical care?
Iconic author Louise Hay explored these ideas in You Can Heal Your Life, suggesting symbolic associations between different body areas and emotional themes. Whether they resonate with you or not, they can be an interesting invitation to reflect.
A few examples:
• Headaches – self-criticism, pressure, perfectionism
• Neck – flexibility, seeing another point of view
• Shoulders – carrying burdens and responsibility
• Stomach – digesting life experiences
• Liver – anger and resentment
• Lungs – grief and embracing life
• Kidneys – fear and disappointment
• Lower back – support and financial worries
I can definitely relate to shades of these.
What about you?
While these specific body–emotion connections haven't been scientifically proven, research continues to reveal just how closely the brain and body communicate. Neuroplasticity, psychoneuroimmunology and even the placebo effect all demonstrate that our thoughts, emotions and expectations can influence our physiology and our capacity to heal.