Del's Women's Wellness

Del's Women's Wellness A myotherapy clinic dedicated to women's health and pregnancy care. Iโ€™m passionate about helping women feel strong, supported & capable in their bodies

Sus things I see in healthcare all the time.Confused? Or worse are you in this situation right now? Ask me all the quest...
07/08/2026

Sus things I see in healthcare all the time.

Confused? Or worse are you in this situation right now?

Ask me all the questions below ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡

I'm Haydie, a women's health myotherapist and doula, practicing from Pakenham and Healesville.

I support women navigating pain, lifes transitions, and rehabbing injuries with expertise in:

๐Ÿ’œ Myotherapy/ remedial massage
๐Ÿ’œPilates, rehab programs, and training advice
๐Ÿ’œ Doula support
๐Ÿ’œAbdominal scar therapy
๐Ÿ’œ Internal pelvic release
๐Ÿ’œ Labour Preparation Bodywork

Haydie xx

30/07/2026

I was debriefing a birth with a client recently and she said:

"I just want to know why my body didn't progress. Why did my baby become distressed?"

It broke my heart. And I wish it was the only time I heard it. But it is one of many.

The first thing I said to her was โ€˜Your body did the very best she could with the circumstances she was given.โ€™

An induction that ends in an emergency caesarean doesn't automatically mean your body failed.

Sometimes it means your body and your baby simply weren't ready yet.

Sometimes it means the medications used to start or speed up labour created contractions that were stronger, closer together, or more intense than your baby could comfortably tolerate.

Sometimes it means your cervix wasn't ready, labour became longer and harder, and one intervention led to another. Like trying to push a square peg in a round hole.

That's not your body failing. That's physiology interacting with medical intervention.

The hardest part?

She had never been told these were possible outcomes. She didnโ€™t even know she could have said no. She just believed it was all her 'fault'

She wasn't told that induction has risks and can increase the chance of further interventions. She wasn't prepared for what those interventions might look like, or how they could affect her birth.

That's very different from saying induction is wrong.

Induction is absolutely the right choice in many pregnancies, and it has saved countless lives.

But informed consent means understanding both the benefits and the risks. It means knowing what could happen, not just hoping for the best.

So if you've ever walked away from your birth believing your body failed you, I hope you hear this.

Your body wasn't working against you.

Your body worked so hard to get to where it was without being ready. She was doing everything she could with the circumstances she was given.

And you deserved to know what those circumstances might involve before making your decision.

If you need a sounding board to process your experience, both virtual and in person sessions are available ๐Ÿ’œ

Just your friendly neighbourhood myotherapist making sure you're looking out for you to ๐Ÿ˜˜ Hi I'm Haydie, a women's healt...
28/07/2026

Just your friendly neighbourhood myotherapist making sure you're looking out for you to ๐Ÿ˜˜

Hi I'm Haydie, a women's health myotherapist and doula, practicing from Pakenham and Healesville.

I support women navigating pain, life's transitions, and rehabbing injuries with expertise in:

๐Ÿ’œ Myotherapy/ remedial massage
๐Ÿ’œPilates, rehab programs, and training advice
๐Ÿ’œ Doula support
๐Ÿ’œAbdominal scar therapy
๐Ÿ’œ Internal pelvic release
๐Ÿ’œ Labour Preparation Bodywork

DM me with any questions!
Haydie xx

'This is going to sound weird - it hurts, but feels good at the same time?' Not weird. Literally how I make a living ๐ŸคฃFi...
24/07/2026

'This is going to sound weird - it hurts, but feels good at the same time?'

Not weird.

Literally how I make a living ๐Ÿคฃ

Finding the right pressure, in just the right direction, after the right warm up, in a calm and safe space. It's an art and not an exact science. You have to work WITH the person in front of you.

So, if you have had sessions that were too uncomfortable or basically a tickle, and you felt like they didn't help - this might be why!

Do you know what I mean by good pain? Or is pain just pain for you??

(No wrong answers!)

Most people have heard of the pelvic floor.Far fewer people know that it plays a huge role in s*xual function.Your pelvi...
16/07/2026

Most people have heard of the pelvic floor.

Far fewer people know that it plays a huge role in s*xual function.

Your pelvic floor is involved in arousal, sensation, pe*******on and or**sm, but it's only one piece of a much bigger puzzle.

Hormones, your nervous system, stress levels, birth, surgery, scars, medications and past experiences can all influence how your body responds during intimacy.

That's why there's rarely a one size fits all answer.

If you've ever been told to โ€˜just do your kegelsโ€™ or that pain with s*x is normal after having a baby, getting older or having surgery, it's worth knowing there's a lot more to the conversation than that.

Internal Pelvic Release is about understanding how they're functioning and where you are holding tension, alongside everything else that's happening in your body.

Sometimes they need to relax.

Sometimes they need to get stronger.

Sometimes they're doing exactly what they've adapted to do, and we need to work out why.

You don't have to accept pain, reduced sensation or changes in intimacy as something you simply have to live with.

If this post made you think โ€˜That sounds a bit like meโ€™ - I'd love to help.

Book in for an internal pelvic release and let's work out what's going on and what your next steps could look like!

3 weeks to go until Belly, Birth & Beyond Gippsland ๐ŸŽ‰I'm slowly getting everything sorted including finalising things fo...
11/07/2026

3 weeks to go until Belly, Birth & Beyond Gippsland ๐ŸŽ‰

I'm slowly getting everything sorted including finalising things for my mini sessions.
Bodywork, Q&As, pelvic or scar assessment - I am ya girl!

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