09/09/2026
Story time
Vulnerable post
About LOVE
Love is an interesting thingβ¦ π€
I spend so much of my time helping others navigate love.
I help people find relationships, understand their partners, work through challenges, reconnect, help them go through several relationships, to help them find balance in themselves and their relationships β and sometimes even open themselves up to finding love again.
Yet when it comes to my own love life,
Believe it or not
Itβs the one area I find incredibly difficult to read for myself.
And maybe thereβs a lesson in that.
Sometimes when weβre emotionally invested in the outcome, itβs harder to separate our intuition from our hopes, fears and expectations.
Sometimes we block ourselves or hold ourselves back. Or as a reader we can see - no he is cheating or talking to other women ect ect
So thereβs the up side and the down side to being a reader.
Even if a reader says - go here - do this
To find a partner.
We still need to step out of our comfort zone to actually do it.
No one is coming to knock on our door.
I can read clearly for others because Iβm outside of their story.
So this is me being human
Iβve been single for a long time, and although I can see love and possibilities so clearly for others, I donβt always have that same clarity for myself.
So does anyone know a good reader hehehe
I have tried readers myself - nope !!!! No success !!!! ?????
Perhaps thatβs why I understand my clients so well when they sit across from me and say,
βI just want to know if Iβm ever going to find my person.β
I just LOVE some of the success stories
I have with helping others with LOVE
It fills my heart - as I believe we all deserve LOVE !!!!
I would love to be able to find everyoneβs partner and have a happy ending for everyone.
Because underneath being a Medium, a healer and a reader⦠I understand that feeling too. Where is my person ???
Maybe he is lost hehehe
So much easier reading for others when it comes to LOVE - so much easier !
While I wait , I see it as a time of growth
To do all the things I need and want to do.
I LOVE life , I love my business, I love my clients, I love my family , I love my animals and I love helping people to do the same. π€
Maybe thereβs a lesson in this and maybe Iβm meant to post this for others too.
Itβs ok to be vulnerable
Itβs ok to be single
Learning to LOVE YOURSELF is the most important lesson - if you canβt be happy with yourself and your own life
Youβll never be able to be happy with someone else.
Itβs not someone elseβs job to make us happy
Itβs our job -
If we think another person is the answer and will make us happy thatβs too much expectation on them.
Once we can love ourself and be happy on our own, we can then love someone else so much more.
I hope this can help someone
Find what fills your heart.
That does not need to be a person - it can be anything that makes you feel happy, safe, content and at peace.
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