Ellygurx Counselling

Ellygurx Counselling Counselling services offering opportunities for growth, healing, resilience and hope.
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If not, that job, relationship, or object can become connected to your sense of worth -and you are more likely to discon...
22/05/2026

If not, that job, relationship, or object can become connected to your sense of worth -
and you are more likely to disconnect from your values or other needs in order to keep it.

The healthiest relationships involve a balance between a deep connection to self and other.

19/05/2026

Please focus on other areas of your life, in order to make healthier decisions in love 🫶

18/05/2026

People don’t only hurt others because they don’t care. Sometimes they hurt others because their fear is stronger than their capacity to love well.

12/05/2026

If this person suddenly became consistently available, emotionally healthy, reassuring, and fully committed… would I still be drawn to them as they are, or am I attached to the chase itself?

11/05/2026

It’s wild how love can be present and protection can still take over at the same time.

Most of what breaks connection isn’t lack of love, it’s what happens under emotional pressure. We’re not just loving each other, we’re also trying to stay emotionally safe at the same time.

Sometimes what looks like distance is just a nervous system doing its best to cope.
It’s not always about choosing love or choosing someone… sometimes it’s about what feels survivable in the moment.

We don’t lose attractionwe lose activation.Availability feels calm, and our brain is used to intensity, so we mistake st...
05/05/2026

We don’t lose attraction
we lose activation.

Availability feels calm, and our brain is used to intensity, so we mistake stability for lack of spark.

We don’t lose attraction,we lose activation.Availability feels calm,and our brain is used to intensity,so we mistake sta...
05/05/2026

We don’t lose attraction,
we lose activation.

Availability feels calm,
and our brain is used to intensity,
so we mistake stability for lack of spark.
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28/04/2026

A rough patch has movement.
There’s accountability, effort, and some form of repair.

A pattern doesn’t. It repeats same issue, same conversation, same outcome.

So if nothing is actually changing,
it’s not something you’re “going through”…it’s something you’re in.

This does NOT apply to relationships where there is:* consistent disrespect* emotional/physical harm* chronic instabilit...
20/04/2026

This does NOT apply to relationships where there is:

* consistent disrespect
* emotional/physical harm
* chronic instability with no repair
* one-sided effort

In those cases, leaving is the skill.

16/04/2026

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08/04/2026

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