11/08/2026
💙 To my dearest friend I have been advocating love, information and support to x
There are moments in life that demand a rare kind of courage, and watching you walk this road with your gorgeous father is one of them. I am writing this because sometimes, when the world feels overwhelmingly heavy, we need to be reminded of the light we are carrying.
To witness the deterioration of someone who held so much of your world is a profound heartbreak. Yet, the way you love him through this transition is nothing short of sacred. You are not just caring for him; you are sheltering him as he prepares for a beautiful journey.When you speak so bravely of him tired, weary. Of him sensing the ancestors coming soon—I am filled with awe. It takes an incredible strength of character to listen to those holy, quiet moments without fear.
Instead of pulling away, you are meeting him at the edge of this life with an open heart. You are honoring his transition, validating his peace, and gracefully acknowledging the hands reaching out to guide him home.Your strength right now is not loud or demanding.
It is soft, fierce, and deeply rooted in love. You are the bridge between his earthly presence and the legacy he leaves behind.
Please know that you do not have to be strong all the time. But on the days you feel weary, I want you to remember what I see when I look at you: a daughter of immense grace, a woman of profound character, and a deeply loved friend.I am holding you, your beautiful father, and the ancestors close to my heart. I am here for whatever you need, always.
With all my love,
Deb x