08/14/2026
This message was prompted by a check-in call I had with one of my remote clients this morning.
We were talking about her week, her habits, how things were going, andâof courseâthe scale came up in the conversation!
And honestly, this is a conversation I have ALL. THE. TIME.
So I thought, you know what? Maybe more women need to hear this.
Because sometimes we put so much meaning into that one little number on the bathroom scale.
So here was a little bit of our conversationâŚ
That moody little rectangle on your bathroom floor?
Itâs not lying đ¤Ľ
BUT it is definitely not telling you the whole story.
If youâve ever stepped on the scale, seen it up 2â4 pounds and immediately thought, âWell⌠I blew it,â I want you to hear this:
You did not gain 4 pounds of body fat overnight.
And the same goes in the other direction.
If you suddenly drop 2â4 pounds overnight, that doesnât necessarily mean you just lost 2â4 pounds of body fat either.
The scale is measuring change, not explaining the reason for the change.
And especially during perimenopause, menopause and post-menopause, our bodies can become a little less predictable.
Hormonal changes can influence fluid balance, digestion, inflammation, appetite, sleep and how our bodies store and use energy.
So letâs talk about some of the things that can move that number up OR down.
đ§ Water retention
Stress, travel, salty foods, hard workouts, poor sleep, dehydration and hormonal shifts can all affect how much water your body holds.
đ Glycogen
When you eat carbohydrates, your body stores some of them as glycogen. Glycogen is stored with water, roughly 3â4 grams of water for every gram of glycogen.
So after a higher-carbohydrate day, the scale may go up.
That doesnât mean you gained body fat.
And when glycogen and its associated water decrease, the scale can drop just as quickly.
đ˝ď¸ Food volume
Had a bigger dinner? Ate later than usual?
There is literally more food and fluid inside your digestive system.
Food has weight. đ
Who knew?
𩸠Hormonal fluctuations
For women who are still cycling, different phases of the menstrual cycle can cause changes in water retention, digestion and inflammation.
And for women in perimenopause, menopause and post-menopause, changing hormone levels can make these fluctuations feel even less predictable.
đ§ Sodium
One particularly salty meal can temporarily increase water retention for a day or two.
đď¸ââď¸ Inflammation from training
Had a hard strength workout, long run, hike or challenging workout?
Your muscles are repairing and adapting. That process can temporarily increase inflammation and water retention.
So what exactly is the scale measuring đ
Fat.
Muscle.
Water.
Glycogen.
Food in your digestive tract.
Inflammation.
Hormonal changes.
And a whole lot of other things happening inside a living, breathing human body.
You are not a spreadsheet.
And your body certainly doesnât operate like one.
And this is the part I really want you to remember:
It works BOTH ways.
A sudden increase doesnât automatically mean youâve gained fat.
And a sudden decrease doesnât automatically mean youâve lost fat.
The scale is simply giving you a piece of information.
Itâs your job to look at that information in context.
So what are we actually looking for?
CONSISTENCY. Not perfection.
If weighing yourself is something you want to do, look at trends over time rather than getting emotionally attached to one number.
And pay attention to:
⢠How your clothes fit
⢠Progress photos
⢠Your strength and performance
⢠How you feel during your workouts
⢠Your energy
⢠Your digestion
⢠Your hunger and fullness cues
⢠Your sleep and recovery
⢠Your daily movement
⢠How consistently youâre following the habits that support your goals
Because hereâs the thing I really want women to stop doing:
Letting one morningâs number dictate how we communicate (you know exactly what Iâm talking about) with ourselves.
You can eat well.
You can strength train.
You can walk.
You can drink your water.
You can get your protein and fibre.
You can sleep better.
You can take care of yourself.
âŚand the scale can still go up.
Or it can suddenly go down.
Neither one tells you the whole story.
Weâre looking for the trend.
Weâre looking for consistency.
Weâre looking for habits you can actually sustain.
Not perfection.
As we move through perimenopause, menopause and beyond, learning to understand your body instead of constantly fighting it can be a pretty powerful shift.
So the next time you step on the scale and the number isnât what you expected, take a breath.
Donât immediately assume youâve failed.
Your weight is a data point, not a moral grade.
Look at the whole picture.
And then keep going. â¤ď¸
And if this is something you find yourself struggling with, understanding the changes in your body, knowing what to focus on, making sense of the scale, nutrition, strength training and all the changes that come with this stage of life, you donât have to figure it all out on your own.
This is exactly the kind of work I do with women.
I work with women through perimenopause, menopause and beyond to help them understand their bodies, build sustainable nutrition and movement habits, get stronger, and stop feeling like theyâre constantly starting over.
If you feel like you could use some support, send me a message. We can have a conversation about where youâre at and what support might look like for you.
No pressure. No quick fixes.
Just support, education, accountability and a plan that makes sense for your life. â¤ď¸