09/05/2026
Two years ago, she hoped to have her first baby at the birthing centre. For medical reasons, those plans changed. She was transferred to hospital and, although she had a vaginal birth, it came with many more interventions than she had hoped for.
Somewhere along the way, she also became my friend.
So when she became pregnant with baby number two and asked me to be by her side again, I was overjoyed. With the support of our midwife, we planned to try for the birthing centre again.
Her due date came and went. Then 41 weeks came and went.
Labour was slow to start, and the midwife and I were waiting for signs that it was time to meet her at the birth centre.
Then I got the text: “My water broke.”
I called immediately. Her husband answered.
“She’s pushing. I can see the head.”
Well then. 😂
I called the midwife and we both rushed to their house. The birth centre was officially off the table. This baby had her own plans.
So technically, she DID get her out-of-hospital birth this time… just not where we expected.
We made do with towels, puppy pads and whatever we could grab.
There’s a moment in this video where you’ll see me look at the midwife and she gives me a little nod. We had both noticed meconium-stained fluid. EMS was called and waited outside, just in case we needed extra hands once baby arrived.
No panic. Just a change in plans.
My phone unfortunately died and missed some of the excitement, including the moment I almost received what birth workers call an “amniotic shower”… in my nice WHITE T-shirt. 😂
And then, right there at home, she birthed her beautiful baby girl.
Not long afterwards, she was tucked into her own bed, cuddling her baby and ordering dinner.
Two years ago, birth took her somewhere she hadn’t planned to go.
This time, birth ignored the plan again… but in a completely different way.
There is something so special about being invited back into someone’s birth space, knowing their first story and understanding just how much this next one means.
Sometimes the birth you planned isn’t the birth you get.
Sometimes it’s even wilder. 🤍
Maddie Amyotte Shauna Budden