06/23/2026
Can we normalize women changing their minds?
Seriously.
When did changing your mind become something to feel guilty about?
Why do so many women feel like once they’ve said yes, they have to follow through no matter what?
Even when they’re exhausted.
Even when their priorities have changed.
Even when they no longer have the time, energy, or desire.
So many of us have been taught that being a “good woman” means being accommodating, available, and willing to put everyone else’s needs ahead of our own.
And because of that, changing our minds can feel selfish.
But what if it isn’t?
What if changing your mind simply means you’ve checked in with yourself?
What if it means you’ve recognized that something no longer aligns with your needs, your values, or your capacity?
Changing your mind doesn’t make you flaky.
It doesn’t make you unreliable.
It doesn’t make you a bad person.
Sometimes it means you’re growing.
Sometimes it means you’ve gained new information.
And sometimes it simply means you’re finally listening to yourself.
I think more women need permission to do that.
Because every time you honor your needs, you’re sending yourself a powerful message:
✨ My needs matter too.
Have you ever felt guilty for changing your mind? I’d love to hear your thoughts. 💖
~ Live in Love ~
Sarah Manning