Good Ember

09/16/2026

09/14/2026

Our official guide to the fantasy you had before you ever had a name for it. Read it now on our blog.

09/13/2026

True bucket list item: Speaking to Dan Savage about starting Good Ember

02/22/2026

You love them. You chose them. You still find them attractive. Yet, the butterflies are gone? You are not broken, ungrateful, or secretly incompatible. You are experiencing something very common in long-term relationships, especially for women.

Why desire fades in long-term relationships and how intentional novelty can bring back sexual tension and excitement.

02/19/2026

New p*gging box. Genuine leather harness. Available to subscribers now.

02/05/2026

Stay in this Valentine’s day

12/19/2025

This isn’t a “rip the paper under the tree” kind of gift.
It’s a “wait until the doors are locked and everyone’s gone to bed” kind of gift.
One last present. For the two of you.
The kind that ties the night together nicely.
We can’t promise what happens next. But we can promise they’ll remember it.

12/12/2025

Somewhere along the way, Santa got hot. There is, quite literally, a Santa fe**sh.

Why does Christmas, of all cultural moments, lend itself so awkwardly to erotic reinterpretation? Read on at The Kinkist.

Christmas is supposed to be comforting and nostalgic. But somewhere along the way, Santa got hot. Why? Because Christmas is saturated with power, reward, and anticipation.