09/03/2026
It is never a dull moment when I meet up with my cousins. 𝙈𝙖𝙖𝙢𝙚 𝙆𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙙𝙪 thanks for arranging this outing. It was wholesome.
What started as a dinner outing turned into a deep conversation about women’s mental health, particularly maternal mental health.
We talked about motherhood and identity loss. How easy it can be to become so consumed by being a mother, partner, daughter, and a working mother that you lose touch with the woman underneath all those roles.
We also explored maternal burnout, postpartum depression and anxiety, and the emotional weight that often goes unseen.
The conversation also touched on marriage, intimacy, resentment, infidelity, divorce, and how relationships can change when couples are navigating parenthood while struggling to find time for themselves.
And oh, we had to discuss maternal self-care and the importance of having safe people in your inner circle.
This dinner was self-care for me. Taking a break from responsibilities, sitting around a table, laughing, being vulnerable, and having honest conversations with people I feel safe with.
Having safe people in your inner circle matters. People you can be yourself around. People you can talk to without judgment. People who remind you that you are more than your roles and responsibilities.
Sometimes self-care is simply making space to reconnect with yourself and the people who help you feel like you again.
Motherhood matters. Marriage matters. Family matters.
But so do you.
And who you surround yourself with matters too.
Let’s talk about how delicious the food was Chiang Mai