09/15/2026
Where did you learn to do “that”?
Experience is built in layers of moments where you were present, where you applied ideas and invested effort , where you tried/failed/tried again, where you challenged yourself and where you allowed yourself to DO IT.
Some trail skills that I am actually very grateful to have a basic skill set in are tarp building, fire starting and coffee making ;)
The shelter of a tarp is a habit I have adopted from Outdoor School YXE canoe trips - sometimes begrudgingly. But as I sat there under our tarp between our two vestibules after the struggle to forge the geometry of driftwood to work in our favor - I was a little proud of the set up. I trust the few knots I know, can see ways to improve run off, and appreciate all the times before that have built the confidence I have today to get that tarp up.
The tarp and skills to get it up in a way that not only would work, but would be resilient enough to withstand the wind and rain, is a skill set that I have only just started to gain more confidence in. And every time I force myself to put a tarp up camping or in class is another layer of experience.
And fire starting. I HATE fires: and I will quite possibly die trying to light one in less than ideal conditions. BUT….i was pretty proud teaching a group of Seattle men how to build a fire (they had zero success with their driftwood stick teepee style starter). Babybell wax and TP for the win! I might have showed off a little - with confidence only in the fact that things were dry and I had reliable supplies (and an audience because pressure does help sometimes!)
My point is - skills and confidence are built in moments of effort and opportunity. You can’t watch someone do it and then have adopted the skill through osmosis. Observe, learn, TRY, improve, repeat…
Never be afraid to ask for help to learn something.
Invest TIME and EFFORT BEFORE you have the need to use the skill.
Force yourself to KEEP practicing.
These things pay off - sometimes when you need them most.