07/14/2026
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What to Surrender to in times of Conflict
Take a breath with me my dear friends…this topic is uncomfortable but necessary.
When we find ourselves in conflict or in a fight— whether with someone we love, a co-worker or acquaintance, it is natural for our primitive brain to reach for strategies of control, defence, or protection. It is our EGO’s job to keep us safe. This is our nervous system’s way of trying to keep us safe.
But what if the deepest medicine in that moment isn’t to resist, but to surrender — not to defeat, but to Love itself?
Here are some powerful truths I return to, especially when emotions run high:
“There is nothing you can do in this moment that will stop me from loving you.”
“There is a sacred opportunity in this situation to heal a part of our deep inner wounds.”
“This moment is here to serve our soul’s evolution.”
“This is happening for us not too us.”
These words bring me back to the language of the soul — the part of us untouched by ego, trauma, or fear. The parts of us that are not programmes of our mind-brain.
When I speak them, I’m offering up my conditional love — the kind that demands validation or control — and returning to the infinite source of unconditional love that lives beneath every story, every wound, and every layer of social conditioning. The unconditional love that holds everyone and everything as a sacred part of our collective tapestry of experience throughout the universe.
The part of us, our God source that is ONE with everyone and everything. You are me, I am you – there is no separation.
I remind myself: I am not my trauma. You are not your trauma. Our trauma is a story, not the truth of who we are.
What we truly are is so much greater — divine immortal beings remembering love through the human experience.
When I can hold that awareness, even for a moment, my soul sees your soul. And in that space… love never left.
So the next time you find yourself in a fight, pause. Breathe. Soften your heart.
Surrender — not to being right, but to being love.
Because in that surrender, we return to our true nature.
And from that space, everything heals.
Sacred Invitation: If you feel stuck in trauma or have conflict energy holding you back and want to heal and resolve it book a free discovery call or contact me and we can co-create your healing together.
Healing all that no longer serves.
Dawn Cormier, HBSc.
Modern Mystic at your Service, Certified level 2 TOLPAKAN ™ Healer & Reiki Master
