Inner Counsel Therapy

Inner Counsel Therapy Support for understanding thoughts, emotions, and behaviours without self-criticism.

Drawing on diverse therapeutic approaches in high-pressure professional settings, creating space to untangle mental noise, reconnect with what matters, and find clarity. Stefan Jürgens, RP (Qualifying), is the founder of Inner Counsel Psychotherapy and a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying). After nearly 20 years as a law librarian—where he navigated complex legal issues and the human stories b

ehind them—he now supports adults navigating anxiety, perfectionism, and life transitions with clarity and compassion. Stefan blends analytical precision with deep empathy, drawing on evidence-based approaches including CBT, DBT, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Narrative Therapy. He holds Master’s degrees in Counselling Psychology (MACP) and Library & Information Science (MLIS).

Ever feel drained even when no one else is pushing you? You might be crossing your own personal boundaries without reali...
04/11/2026

Ever feel drained even when no one else is pushing you? You might be crossing your own personal boundaries without realizing it.

Discover how tuning in to your internal limits can change everything.

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Personal boundaries are not barriers. They are an honest account of what you can and can't give.

Feeling stretched too thin and exhausted by “doing it all”? Discover why your constant yes may be costing your well-bein...
04/08/2026

Feeling stretched too thin and exhausted by “doing it all”?

Discover why your constant yes may be costing your well-being and how small boundary changes can give you back your time, energy, and peace of mind.

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Feeling guilty doesn't mean you're doing something wrong; it often just means you're doing something different from what others expect or what you've always done. This is an important distinction.

Ever agree to something and regret it the moment you press send?Saying no can feel surprisingly difficult, even when you...
04/01/2026

Ever agree to something and regret it the moment you press send?
Saying no can feel surprisingly difficult, even when you are exhausted.

Here is why it happens and how to start setting boundaries without guilt.

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Saying no to what drains you is a way of saying yes to yourself.

Staying informed shouldn’t come at the cost of your mental health.Here are practical strategies for managing news anxiet...
03/25/2026

Staying informed shouldn’t come at the cost of your mental health.
Here are practical strategies for managing news anxiety while remaining engaged with the world.

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Caring doesn't require constant availability, and being informed does not require saturation.

Does reading the news ever leave you feeling tense, foggy, or strangely on edge even before your day begins?You’re not i...
03/18/2026

Does reading the news ever leave you feeling tense, foggy, or strangely on edge even before your day begins?

You’re not imagining it. Our nervous systems weren’t designed for a constant stream of global crises.

In this article, I explore news anxiety: why it happens, why it’s becoming so common, and why feeling overwhelmed by the headlines is actually a very human response.

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Managing news anxiety isn't about caring less. It's about protecting our ability to care over the long haul.

Winter mental health can bring lower energy and a pull inward. A thoughtful reflection on seasonal slowing, self-compass...
01/22/2026

Winter mental health can bring lower energy and a pull inward. A thoughtful reflection on seasonal slowing, self-compassion, and practical ways to care for yourself through winter.

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Winter is not asking us to perform. It’s asking us to adjust.

That quiet, relentless inner voice can shape how you see yourself and the world. Explore how inner critics form, why the...
01/20/2026

That quiet, relentless inner voice can shape how you see yourself and the world. Explore how inner critics form, why they persist, and how therapy can help you relate to them with more choice, compassion, and steadiness.

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Not fixing what's broken, but discovering what becomes possible when you meet yourself with understanding instead of force.

Most New Year's resolutions fail by mid-February. Not because you lack discipline—but because self-criticism kills motiv...
01/05/2026

Most New Year's resolutions fail by mid-February. Not because you lack discipline—but because self-criticism kills motivation.

The alternative? Self-compassion. It's not about lowering standards. It's about responding to setbacks with curiosity instead of shame.

If your resolutions already feel heavy, there's a kinder way forward.



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Change doesn’t begin with pressure. It begins with emotional safety.

Wondering why progress feels slow in therapy? This post explains how regular sessions help build trust, deepen insight, ...
12/15/2025

Wondering why progress feels slow in therapy? This post explains how regular sessions help build trust, deepen insight, and create lasting change. Learn simple strategies to stay engaged between appointments and make the most of every session.

Ready to feel more supported and grounded? Book a free 15-minute consultation to get started.

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Therapy becomes a steady anchor, a place to return each week and check in with yourself.

Holiday stress can add up fast. If the season feels overwhelming or exhausting, you’re not alone. My latest post explore...
12/07/2025

Holiday stress can add up fast. If the season feels overwhelming or exhausting, you’re not alone. My latest post explores why holiday burnout happens—and how small moments of care can make a meaningful difference.

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The holidays do not need to be perfect. They only need to feel like yours | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

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