04/19/2024
Let's try this again and see if you can hear my speaking throughout?!One of my regular meditative prayers: "I have the Wisdom and Compassion for each person that is a stranger to my eyes/ears; I have the same Wisdom and Compassion for those I have been familiar with for years who may surprise me with the "strangeness" of an angle I have never seen/experienced before. Om Shanti (I am Peace)."
Ever notice that we are very welcoming to those we feel are like ourselves? We like those that are good looking (according to our definition of it), those that are intelligent (especially if we believe we are), we may welcome those that we look up to, or those that may somehow help us, but not likely those we have various biases about - this may be about the work the other does/does not do, their level of education, their age, their colour, their affluence, their popularity (or lack of it)... Interesting that each of these factors influence how "welcoming" we are with others. From what we do through our thoughts, our facial or bodily expressions, and certainly our communication through our words and actions.
Today in Bali I had an interesting experience that led to this contemplation. This video is to share that experience and the commonality all over the world.
Take a look to reflect on yourself to understand just how welcoming you are (or are not).
I think the things I have felt is the pattern in welcoming includes these 3 steps: Acknowledgement, Acceptance and Kindness.
Have people been welcoming to you? Have you been welcoming to others? Anyone you have not welcomed... and why? A bias? An expectation? A disappointment? A fear? A memory?
Do reflect and understand yourself to understand others too.
Hope you enjoy the contemplation I have tried sharing in this video!
"True Hospitality is welcoming the stranger on her own terms. This kind of hospitality can only be offered by those who've found the center of their lives in their own hearts."
~Henri Nouwen
"Be not forgetful to entertain strangers, for thereby, some have entertained Angels unawares" ~Hebrews 13:2
"A smile is the universal welcome." ~Max Eastman
"Maybe the most difficult stranger to welcome is the one who lives inside us."
~Mirabai Starr
One of my regular meditative prayers: "I have the Wisdom and Compassion for each person that is a stranger to my eyes/ears; I have the same Wisdom and Compas...