29/11/2024
There are four types of conflicts in stories: Man vs. Man; Man vs. Society; Man vs. Nature; and Man vs. Self. If you struggle with being friend-zoned more often than not, it isn't another man, society, or even nature that is holding you back. You must confront your SELF. This is the conflict you must overcome. I don't say this lightly. The reason I know is because I have had to face my SELF too.
When I was suddenly disabled by a pharmaceutical injury in my 30's, I completely lost all sense of who I was. Pre-illness I saw myself as an energetic mom with a clean house who volunteered for her daughter's school and was an activist for s*x worker rights. If you asked me to tell you who I was, I would have listed these things and more. But when all of these things were suddenly taken away from me, I couldn't tell you who I was because I didn't know anymore. I had to learn what really defined me were the things that could not be taken away from me. I did the work I needed to do and now I know exactly who I am. Not only that, but I LOVE who I am. You can love yourself too.
Self-concept is always important to address with my coaching clients. First, we flesh out who you really are. Using some simple exercises, I take you through a process to get to know yourself and become the man you are truly meant to be. If this alone doesn't transform your life, I will be very surprised. After you start the process of becoming your highest self, I take you through some other powerful exercises and help you institute some simple practices in your life (that cost nothing) to start reaching for and achieving goals that seemed impossible before. I help you to incorporate philosophies and inner knowledge that were never taught to you before. This is a game changer not just for dating but for every aspect of your life. Reach out to learn more.
Read more: How to Get Out of the Friend Zone
https://www.annietemple.com/blog/how-to-get-out-friend-zone
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