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13/01/2026

Every encounter, relationship, and moment in your life is intricately planned by God, woven into a divine tapestry for His purpose and glory. Trust that nothing happens by chance, and even small interactions have meaning, bringing peace and deepening faith.
Evelyn Gibson


Just coming back from the mountain what is happening on the planet 😭
02/09/2024

Just coming back from the mountain what is happening on the planet 😭

02/09/2024

MY RULES AS A BOYFRIEND IN THIS ERA

1. No male bestie . I would rather trust that Wakanda is real than " He is just a friend"

2 . Engaging in any bad practices that may put you in absolute danger is not allowed .

3. Don't send me selfies after you've already posted them .
I can't be vibing second hand selfies.

4. Any mention of " my ex used to ..." then you can go right back to him because we're literally not the same .

5. Having a male gym instructor who frequently DMs you and or being obsessed with a male pastor means we can't be .

6 . Don't have senseless tattoos because you're not gonna embarass me in front of my mother , Auntie's or Sisters .

7 .You better not drink any beer . This is non negotiable.

8 . If a video of you tweaking touches the internet then you're out .

9. Just be a lady , be accountable , take responsibility and say sorry where necessary.

10. My friends are not your friends ( negotiable )

11 . If you hug a guy and he picks you off the ground you better stay up there .

12 . If you wish an influencer or celebrities a happy birthday yet they don't follow you then we are done . I wouldn't let my girl become a groupie like she's less privileged .

13. Don't you dare going to parties that are hosted by men whose invitation reached you through your friend . My girl won't be invited to beef up the ratio .

14. If we go to function and the bouncer or the promoter knows you and hugs you with your one leg hanging in the air , they can have you .

15 . If I tell you that I don't have money for now then you post on status like " Someone send a cute girl Trans ID plz " then we are done .

Girls are you willing to shoot your shot like this
28/08/2024

Girls are you willing to shoot your shot like this

27/08/2024

20 SIGNS THAT SHOW YOU HAVE MET MR RIGHT...

1. He listens to you.
2. He admires you.
3. He is very patient, loving and kind to you.
4. He corrects your mistakes in love.
5. He is proud of you and flaunts you shamelessly.
6. He never asks you for romance, kissing, necking, petting and s*x.
7. He believes in your future and will do anything in his power to ensure you fulfil destiny.
8. He supports your vision.
9. You are in his future plans. He really desires to marry you.
10. He is generous. He gives when he has.
11. You love him too.
12. You admire him -a lot.
13. You respect him and loves to listen to him and understand him.
14. You have peace of mind and joy each time you are with him.
15. His thought floods you with peace.
16. You believe in his vision and you are both actively working together to make it happen.
17. You have compassion for him.
18. You ignore other men and focus on him only.
19. You share same chemistry.
20. You joyfully look forward to being his wife.

There you go honey! Congratulations if you have found him. You are one of the lucky few who found and is getting married to their soul mate. Send me your wedding invitation as soon as it is out! See you becoming a wife soon. Momma loves you!

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

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At least the potatoes are okay
27/08/2024

At least the potatoes are okay

27/08/2024


©Sir_Zach

EPISODE 73

For the next few days, the people of Country M felt a storm brewing. While the electoral college was conducting an election within the council to pick a new President, Hwang Min was waging war against Maverick.

It's been three days since the ex–president was arrested and sentenced, yet Hwang Min hasn't left the Capital. He tried leaving but Maverick's men were everywhere.

He couldn't stay at the Presidential Villa anymore, so he found a hotel to stay in.

While at the hotel, he was communicating with his people who immediately gathered all of Hwang Min's men and headed for the Capital.

Almost twenty thousand of them flooded the Capital. Although the men settled at the outskirts of the Capital, a few of them entered the City to rescue their Master and cause some losses to Maverick.

They destroyed a few of Maverick's establishments as an official declaration of war.

Hwang Min, who had been rescued was asked to return to SIN city, but the man refused, saying;

"I want to watch how you bring Maverick to his knees!" He curled his lips into a smirk.

The so–called PEACE got a message that Hwang Min had declared an all-out war against Maverick, but they turned a blind eye and didn't get involved. Within, they wanted to see Hwang Min and Maverick's downfall.

Didn't they say they wanted to reform the Country? Well, to do that, those who caused the Country to be a nightmare have to die before the Country sees happy days.

The fight between Maverick and Hwang Min would be happening outside the city to prevent innocent people from dying. After all, it would be a fight between twenty thousand and twelve thousand.

The fight between the Lu family and Xu family caused them some damage, so Maverick had eight thousand active fighters, while Damien gave him four thousand active fighters.

At first, Maverick thought he'd be fighting ten thousand men but after he lost the battle for two consecutive days, he finally called a meeting to understand the situation.


Three black cars drove under the canopy of the night, heading out of the Capital. The cars stopped at a stand–alone building. Even the Presidential Villa has no security protocol as strong as the one here.

For about an hour, the cars were going through thorough checks at different checkpoints until they finally made it through the gates and arrived at the white house.

The middle car was opened by Code 5 and Jeslyn got down, wearing a black outfit. All the guards around them bowed in greetings. With Code 5 and Yellow leading the way, they headed to the entrance of the house.

Stepping into the sitting room, Jeslyn felt a shiver run down her body. This place gave her a feeling of death. No warmth, no life, no nothing.

The sitting room had either black or brown designs all through. So creepy!

"Ma'am, this way, please!" A lady in black trousers and a black top said with a stoic face after bowing to Jeslyn and Yellow.

Jeslyn gave a faint nod before following behind her while the others hung around the sitting room.

Jeslyn wasn't bothered by the lady's coldness because almost all of Maverick's people, both men and women, had a bitch face, including Pink and Yellow.
And they all look ruthless and unforgiving.

Standing by the door, she saw a red light coming from the doorknob and spoke.

"He's holding a meeting."

Jeslyn looked at her, then asked, "Did you see him eat anything since?"

"The Master doesn't eat in the presence of his subordinates," she answered.

"In other words, you're not sure if he ate anything."

"Yes, ma'am."

"Lead me to the kitchen," Jeslyn instructed.

"Yes, Ma'am." The lady turned and started heading to the sitting room.

About thirty minutes later, Jeslyn returned with a tray of piping hot chicken soup and a bowl of rice.

"Knock on the door," she instructed the lady.

Her face changed and she took a step back, then bowed slightly, "I'm sorry, Ma'am. Master hates it."

"Tch. Just do it." Seeing she was hesitant, Jeslyn added. "It's an order."

"Yes, Ma'am!"

The lady stepped forward, took a deep breath and knocked on the door once.

She waited for about a minute before she knocked again.

Seeing she was knocking like one who was afraid of the door, Jeslyn handed her the tray and started banging on the door.

Meanwhile, inside the room, Maverick could be seen among about ten men, including Rex, Fin, and Matt.

"Only my sister-in-law would knock like that," Rex chuckled.

Maverick narrowed his eyes at the three who were sitting together at a corner.

"You called her here?" he asked.

"Don't accuse me, I'm innocent." Inspector Fin immediately said.

"Me too!" Rex added.

"Good she came. Saved me the stress of treating a stubborn patient," Matt rolled his eyes.

"Bang! Bang! Bang!"

Maverick massaged his temple and sighed with his back leaning on the chair.

"Ah, you won't get the door? Then I shall before she gets mad at me." Rex jumped off his chair and ran to the door.

Immediately he opened it, a knock came in contact with his face.

"Ouch!" He cried out.

"Haha, sorry!"Jeslyn giggled and pushed him to the side, carried the tray of food and walked in.

Rex perceived the aroma of the food and hurriedly swallowed. He shut the door with a loud 'bang' and hurried after her.

The meeting wasn't over, so everyone was still seated.

Once Jeslyn came closer, they all got up to greet her.

She smiled at her husband and placed the food on the table.

"It is dangerous. Why did you come?"

"You worry about me, yet you haven't had a wink in three days."

Maverick shot a glare at his friends who turned their faces away. However, the shameless Rex moved over to the table and smiled.

"Sister-in-law, you made this. Did you leave any for me?"

"Rex, stay away," she said. But unfortunately, she was talking to Rex.

He glued himself to her and beamed, "I've not eaten in three days. We've been at war."

"Yet, you're still alive? I bet you would have died from hunger on the first day," Jeslyn snorted.

"Please, forgive me for being rude, but what exactly is she doing here? We are holding an important meeting for crying out loud! This is not a picnic!"

Everyone turned to look at the man who said that. He was wearing the Yu faction's uniform. Undeniably, the leader of the five thousand men sent by Damien.

Some men on the table shook their heads in pity. Inspector Fin gasped and Rex chuckled. Matt, on the other hand, glanced at the guy and rolled his eyes.

Maverick didn't even shift his gaze away from his wife when he heard that.

As for Jeslyn, she was amazed by the guy's words. It was apparent that he had anger in his heart.

"It seems you have a lot to say?" Jeslyn asked a rhetorical question. She wasn't expecting an answer but he was bold enough to reply.

"Of course, I do! Do you know how many men I've lost in the past two days, all because of you?! That man is your father, isn't he? Why can't you settle things amicably with him? Did you have to sacrifice people's lives just to vent? I thought they said you're the people's little sister or whatever, I don't see that in you!"

"You're not done, continue," Jeslyn said with interest.

The man finally looked around him. All the men around him were looking at him with wide eyes. Rex was still laughing and Alpha Chaos was playing with her hair without caring about what he was saying.

Seeing the amount of nonchalance, it fuelled the guy's hatred for Jeslyn. He bolted up and slammed his hand on the desk.

"Of what use is a mere celebrity here? I lost my girlfriend today just because of you! She was a girl too, but she knew better to be a useful one and not some burden! She wouldn't have died if she wasn't here to fight for you! You can't just sit back, while other girls go to war. What makes you special!!"

Maverick paused and finally shifted his gaze to the guy.

"Hahahaha… Brother, it seems people are no longer scared of you. Maybe it started when you stopped wearing black. Hahaha!"

"And also since he started appearing on TVs and allowing Media houses, say s**t about him," Inspector Fin added teasingly.

Jeslyn glanced at her husband's hand and saw it playing with a small knife.

She smiled. Others from the Yu faction must have been thinking the same thing. If she allows her husband to kill their leader, they might turn their back against him in war.

She held her husband's hand and chuckled.

Maverick held her hands and smiled while looking into her eyes. "How do you want to punish him?"

"Talk about punishment if he comes back alive. Meanwhile, let me clear up his misconception," Jeslyn turned to the man and started walking slowly towards him.

"First of all, you're fighting for a cause that you all would benefit from. Before coming here, did you not ask your Master what this war is about or you're just looking for ways to cause trouble?"

The guy turned his face away. Meaning he knew and was only trying to cause disharmony between the men.

Jeslyn narrowed her eyes. Is this man working for Mr. Hwang? Her senses sharpened, as she thought of the number of men they've lost so far. They've lost almost four thousand men in just three days.

No one thought it was weird because the opponent had too many fighting weapons, not excluding fighting jets, deadly explosives and so on.

Not as if Maverick doesn't have such but the enemies attack without notice and leave before Maverick retaliates.

So this is what it is!

"If I remember correctly, Damien attended my baby shower with those he always walks around with, which are Randy and Kim. So how did you conclude that Mr. Hwang is my father and that we have bad blood?"

"Yo–"

"Ah, before you tell me about the media, my baby shower wasn't on live. When Mr. Hwang came, some people had already gone home. No one recorded anything about that, so nothing was posted online, meaning, you either got the gist from Damien…"

"Of cours–"

"… Or from Hwang Min," she raised a brow at his surprised face.

Not just him, everyone looked shocked.

"What do you mean?" Rex asked. None of them thought there could be a spy among them, not even Maverick. Then that must be why they've been losing the battle!

"What I mean is, this dude is working for Mr. Hwang. We all know Damien is not the type to gossip with his men when he is always after my sister-in-law. Which leaves us to believe that he has been in contact with Hwang Min who told him to cause disharmony around here. To achieve that, he caused his girlfriend to die so his rebellion would look real.
"Hwang Min knows that my husband is not one to tolerate disrespect. If my husband kills this betrayer, his men would get angry and withdraw, then leave my husband to fight alone."

"Why do you think Mr. Hwang would want to do that? He has twenty thousand men and if we continue like this, he would win the war." One of the Captains sitting around the table asked.

"He is planning a step ahead. Once he wins this war, he'll need more Army to go against the government and whoever cross his lane. That's where that Buffalo and his team comes in.
"Do I also need to say he is the reason you've been losing the battle because he gives Mr. Hwang your plans?"

Everyone in the room was enraged. They wanted nothing but to pounce on the man right here.

Seeing he had been caught, the man stopped pretending and laughed.

"It's already too late. Mr. Hwang is in control now. How many men does Alpha Chaos have to continue fighting? Brothers, if you come with me now, I guarantee you, Mr. Hwang will treat you well!"

"Shut up!" One of the Captains yelled, he is a member of the Lu faction.

Jeslyn immediately raised her hand to stop the guy from speaking further.

WATCHOUT FOR EPISODE 74

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27/08/2024

Dear couple, you’ve heard it a million times but it bears repeating: even the strongest relationships face challenges.
Building a happy, healthy partnership takes work and may not always be easy, especially when there’s been a breach of trust. “Issues are a part of life and a part of being in a relationship,”.

So, you do you go about that? Here are some tips to get you started, whether you’re dealing with the fallout from a betrayal or trying to keep your marriage going, do this to revive your love;

1. Take full responsibility if you’re at fault:

If there has been infidelity or trust has been broken, it’s important to take full responsibility for what happened and be understanding of how your behavior hurt your partner.

Avoid becoming defensive or sidestepping your mistake, but don’t fall into self-loathing either. “You should own it in a loving way that creates the space to start to rebuild trust,”.

2. Give your partner the opportunity to win your trust back:

While you have every right to feel hurt and angry, there should be a desire to work on the relationship.
“Trust can never be restored until the person whose trust was broken allows their partner a chance to earn it back,”.

3. Learn to compromise:

All relationships require give and take. When you’re living in close quarters, being accommodating of the other person’s needs and preferences without sacrificing your own can help foster more happiness and fulfillment.

27/08/2024

KILLERS OF MARRIAGE

1 Laziness kills Marriage.

2 Suspicion kills Marriage

3 Lack of trust kills marriage.

4 Lack of mutual respect kills marriage.

5 Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice and anger kill marriage.

6 Unnecessary Arguments kills marriage.

7 Keeping Secrets from your Spouse kills marriage.

8 Every form of Infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc).

9 Poor Communication kills marriage.

10 Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect.

11 Relating more with your parents/family members than your spouse kills marriage.

12 Lack of inadequate or unenjoyable s*x kills marriage.

13 Nagging kills marriage.

14 Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage .

15 Spending less or little time with your spouse kills marriage.

16 Being too independent minded kills marriage.

17 LOVE for party, money, impulse buying and spending/partying, financial indiscipline kills marriage.

18 Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or Siblings kills marriage.

19 Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit, not praying together kills not only marriage but your life.

20 Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage.

21 Always wearing a sad face and being Moody kills marriage.

22 FEMINISM ADVOCACY kills marriage.

23 MALE CHAUVINISM kills marriage.

24 Uncontrolled or hot Temperament, Anger kills marriage.

25 Not understanding your role and position , not taking responsibilty in marriage as instituted by God kills marriage.

26 Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage.

27 When anything threatens the position/security of a wife or husband, his or her reaction(s) will be detrimental to the marriage.

28 Lack of the Knowledge of & Obedience to the word of God kills marriage.
Mercy 🥺 🥺

03/08/2024

BEYOND WAITING FOR THE ONE, DO THIS!

There are days that being single is tiring I won't even shy away from it, if you've been truly single for a while you'll surely understand what I'm saying.

I don't know about you, but there are days I wake up lonely, some days I wake up hot with a craving for s*xual satisfaction, some days I just want to lean on someone, different days with different feelings.

If as a single you've been experiencing these things, don't panic, it's normal. And lemme say this, all of these things are not there to make you stumble and fall, they're there to build you up.

You'll be tempted, yes, but temptation is not sin, it's only an invitation to sin, and you're at liberty to say "NO!"

Is it hard? You answer that by yourself because it's hard for me especially on certain days that I'm not at my optimum.

And that's the more reason why I want to talk about the beauty of singleness and the incredible journey of self discovery and self love that comes with it despite these challenges.

The most efficient and effective way to fly in the Kingdom is to wait, and that's the foundation singleness gives you among other things.

Self control can't be thought effectively by theoretical means, you'll have to effect it practically, you'll be tempted a lot, but understand that it's an opportunity for you to learn self control, plus it's just a season that will soon pass away, so maximize it.

We often hear a lot about finding "the one", you know that perfect person who will complete us and make our lives whole. People say that a lot and it's okay...

But here's the thing, singleness is not just a waiting period until we find that special someone. It's actually a season of growth, purpose, and possibility. How do I mean?

It's a season to focus on ourselves and strengthen our relationship with the one who created us. There's a void in man that only the size of God can fill it up, so this is the time to allow God fill you up.

First things first, as a single, you should be sold out to God and the interest of His kingdom, this is how you'll minimize the tendency to give in to sin. I'm telling you what have kept me practically by God's grace.

Secondly, let go of the idea that being single means something is wrong with you. It's not a curse to be single, you're okay!

Embrace your singleness as a gift and an opportunity for personal growth. Waiting is not wasting, when it's time you'll be amazed at the speed of events in your life.

Can I be frank with you?

The best gift you can give to that special person you're waiting for is your personal development, whether you prepare for the next 5 years of your life or not, like the last 5 years of your life, it will come and go.

Prepare to be a blessing to them, focus on mastering the basics, the fundamentals that really count in marriage.

Take this time to rediscover who you are, to pursue your passions, and to nurture the unique gifts and talents that God has placed within you instead of complaining and murmuring at the same spot, invest in yourself.

Yes, it's okay to desire a romantic relationship, but it's equally important to remember that you are a complete, whole, and beautiful individual right now, in this moment.

Find contentment and joy in your own company, and let go of the pressure to measure your worth by your relationship status.

You are worthy of love and happiness, with or without a partner by your side. Choose to be happy because happiness is a choice.

And here's the secret, true fulfillment in any relationship, whether single or partnered, starts with a deep and genuine love for ourselves.

Nobody should love you more than yourself aside God, most people don't like themselves, you can see it in the way they treat themselves, it's a shameful thing.

Remember, you are fearfully and wonderfully made, and you have a unique purpose in this world. You're not a joke or mistake.

Use this season of singleness to explore your passions, pursue your dreams, and make a positive impact on the lives of those around you. Be a blessing indeed.

You are never alone on this journey. The person you're looking for is also looking for you. Don't give up and settle for less.

Devil go try whine you with temptations o, but don't panic, maintain your composure, because God is making all things beautiful in His time for you.

We're in this together, and I'm rooting for you! 🙌💕

Marriage is beautiful when you marry correctly, and that's my prayer for you. Na who give up loose. No try am, yours must work!

This is just a counsel and you can do with it as you please 🙏🏾

Enjoy 😊

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