06/08/2026
Do you remember running around when you were little? Just moving for the joy of it? Climbing trees, or going on the swing, chasing friends around, collapsing in a giggling heap then doing it all again? Movement for joy is instinctual but for a lot of girls that drops off sharply once they reach early adolescence. Navigating periods and social expectations has a huge impact, along with barriers to access for some sports. Many teenage girls say they are too self-conscious to enjoy movement.
That drop off carries on through life with men being more likely to continue being physically active than women. There are so many factors involved in this including the fact that women tend to do the vast majority of unpaid care leaving them less time available for movement.
But a large part of it I think comes down to the fact that throughout our lives we were sold the idea that exercise was something we did to lose weight. That what we looked like was what mattered, not how we felt. We were told to chase skinny: unrealistic for many women, and not a marker of good health.
With the end result being that the joy was taken out of movement. And not only did we miss out on that joy but also the benefits that movement brings us. It has been said that if exercise was a drug we would prescribe it to everyone! The benefits to our hearts, lungs, immune systems, blood pressure, are life changing. We can build strong bones and muscles to help us stay active and enjoying time with our loved ones. Not only that but movement is a fantastic stress release, helping to boost our mood.
As we get older we realise more and more how precious our life and good health is. And missing out on movement because we are worried about the way we look is robbing ourselves of the opportunity for joy in movement now, and a better life in the future.
So maybe we should look back to the little girls we used to be, and remember when movement meant fun and joy, and give ourselves permission to feel that way again. Find something you enjoy: a walk with friends, dancing, tennis, running, lifting weights,climbing hills. Donāt take it too seriously. Jiggle those glorious wobbly bits, live life, and have fun!