11/08/2026
While on holiday, I met a mum to an autistic preschooler. We spoke at length by the pool one day and itās something Iāve thought about since. She didnāt know I was an SLT and I didnāt tell her, I just listened.
She shared that earlier that day her son was having a hard moment at the beach. Another parent had made a negative comment to her, and she walked away upset. Later, she went back to advocate for her son, explaining that he is autistic and asking them to be more thoughtful in future interactions with other families. I bumped into her again later that evening and she thanked me for listening to her, and said that saying it out loud helped her process what had happened and that she felt more positive after speaking with me.
I hear stories like this often in my clinic. Moments where parents carry love, exhaustion, pride, and protectiveness all at once. One thing for sure is that all of my parents are fierce advocates for their child, like the mum I met on holiday.
But it reminded me of something importantā¦sometimes we donāt need to offer advice or even have an opinion (something I can find difficult at times being in a profession where I am expected to give advice!). We just need to listen to peopleās stories and make them feel heard and validated.
We never truly know what a child or family is navigating. As parents, and as kind humans, letās choose compassion and connection firstā¦one of my core values as an SLT and something I hope shines through during my interactions with clients and their families daily š©µ