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Supporting women & couples to find balance on the rollercoaster of infertilityđź’—

10+ years as a psychologist
3+ years of my own secondary infertility journey🍍

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This is something I heard during my own fertility journey that used to drive me absolutely mad. If this landed, save it ...
01/09/2026

This is something I heard during my own fertility journey that used to drive me absolutely mad.

If this landed, save it and send it to someone who needs to feel understood today.

The more people see this, the less alone anyone on this journey feels.

đź’Ś Subscribe to my FREE newsletter Beyond the Wait by replying SUPPORT below.

You did not choose this, it is not your fault, and you are not alone. đź’•

The fertility world is full of people claiming they have the answer. As someone who has been through infertility and wor...
31/08/2026

The fertility world is full of people claiming they have the answer.

As someone who has been through infertility and works in this space, I have some thoughts.

Please save this for the moments you are feeling wobbly about not having tried “enough” or feeling the need to “do more”.

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You did not choose this, it is not your fault, and you are not alone. đź’•

Infertility changes the way you see the world. And some things you simply cannot unsee.If any of these landed for you, y...
27/08/2026

Infertility changes the way you see the world.

And some things you simply cannot unsee.

If any of these landed for you, you are not bitter. You are grieving, and that is totally understandable.

💌 Save this for when you’re struggling with these experiences.

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You did not choose this, it is not your fault, and you are not alone. đź’•

“Just stay positive” is one of the most well-meaning but harmful things you can say to someone on the fertility journey....
26/08/2026

“Just stay positive” is one of the most well-meaning but harmful things you can say to someone on the fertility journey.

Your feelings are valid exactly as they are. All of them.

đź’Ś Save this for when someone says this to you, yet again.

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You did not choose this, it is not your fault, and you are not alone. đź’•

The late period that nobody talks about, and the isolation so many people carry going through it completely alone, are i...
24/08/2026

The late period that nobody talks about, and the isolation so many people carry going through it completely alone, are incredibly painful.

If this has ever been you, I see you. And I hope this helps even a little.

đź’Ś Save this so you feel less alone, if this is something you experience in the future.

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You did not choose this, it is not your fault, and you are not alone. đź’•

23/08/2026

This is one of the most painful and least talked about triggers on the fertility journey.

And feeling it doesn’t make you a bad person.

This is not a judgment of anyone.

It is a reminder that your rage and grief make complete sense.

💌 DM me the word SUPPORT and I’ll send you the link to my FREE newsletter Beyond the Wait.

You did not choose this, it is not your fault, and you are not alone. đź’•

*no offence to Karen’s intended, my mum is called Karen and lovely 🤣🤣🤣If you have ever been on the receiving end of any ...
20/08/2026

*no offence to Karen’s intended, my mum is called Karen and lovely 🤣🤣🤣

If you have ever been on the receiving end of any of these, firstly, I’m sorry.

And secondly, you are very much not alone.

đź’Ś Save this and share it with someone who needs a laugh today.

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You did not choose this, it is not your fault, and you are not alone. đź’•

Infertility triggers aren’t always as obvious as pregnancy announcements. Sometimes they seem to come completely out of ...
19/08/2026

Infertility triggers aren’t always as obvious as pregnancy announcements.

Sometimes they seem to come completely out of nowhere.

If something unexpected has ever stopped you in your tracks on this journey, you are not alone in that.

💌 Save this and share it so other’s can understand the nuances of infertility.

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You did not choose this, it is not your fault, and you are not alone. đź’•

The fertility journey is full of contradictory feelings. And all of them are valid. If you have ever struggled feeling t...
18/08/2026

The fertility journey is full of contradictory feelings.

And all of them are valid.

If you have ever struggled feeling two things at once, this post is for you.

đź’Ś Save this and share it with someone on their fertility journey who needs to hear it today.

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You did not choose this, it is not your fault, and you are not alone. đź’•

16/08/2026

A lot of people I work with don’t identify what they are going through as trauma.

But the relentless, cumulative nature of infertility does exactly what trauma does to a nervous system.

If you have been wondering why you aren’t “coping” better, this might explain it.

💌 DM me the word SUPPORT and I’ll send you the link to my FREE newsletter Beyond the Wait.

You did not choose this, it is not your fault, and you are not alone. đź’•

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