06/08/2026
I have decided to now call myself Bee “entitled vagina” Helygen.
Thank you for this post. It is spot on!!
TUESDAY CHEW THE FAT ✨💫🌾🌻
Don’t be an Andrea, the self-appointed expert and intuitive visionary… 😞
It seems Tuesday is becoming my regular day for chewing the fat and saying the things that have been sitting heavily upon my heart.
By now, many of you will probably have heard about the “Firegate” drama surrounding the Lammas fire in Glastonbury.
The Goddess Conference has publicly apologised, and many people have spoken openly about their very valid concerns. I sincerely hope everyone involved can now move forward with greater understanding, responsibility and care.
Because it is important to speak up.
It is important to question things. It is important to voice concerns, to be listened to and to hold people accountable when necessary.
But concern is not the same thing as cruelty.
A rather unpleasant post appeared on my personal social media yesterday, and I couldn’t simply turn the other cheek.
Perhaps I should have. It wasn’t directed at me personally.
Yet although the post was presented as concern about the Lammas fire, much of its focus seemed to be upon tearing down womenfolk. Women were referred to by their private parts. Their clothes, appearances, bodies and personal choices were mocked.
And honestly, it hurt my heart.
Womenfolk already receive enough vitriol from certain men. Not all men, before anyone begins, but a small and often very loud percentage of them.
Yet lately, some of the most hateful and hurtful words I have witnessed have come from other women.
Why?
Why do some women judge other women so harshly?
Why do they hold other womenfolk down, particularly within communities that claim to be spiritual, enlightened or centred upon the Goddess?
Am I missing something?
Are we not all connected?
Are we not all stumbling along our own winding paths, learning as we go and hopefully helping to walk one another home?
When you mock another woman’s face, body, clothing, life or perceived worth, what does that really say about her?
And what does it reveal about you?
When you pour contempt upon another person, is it not often a mirror reflecting something unresolved within yourself?
I was deeply saddened by the abuse I witnessed. Even more so when other womenfolk eagerly joined the bandwagon, becoming a hungry pack baying for blood.
Those who attempted to question the cruelty or correct the misinformation were attacked, shouted down or silenced by having their comments removed.
And I genuinely take my hat off to the gentlemen who stepped forward and attempted to set the facts straight.
What a sad state of affairs it is when those who claim to be more awakened than everyone else, who believe themselves uniquely gifted, intuitive or spiritually superior, would rather mock, attack and laugh at others than listen, teach or behave with basic human kindness.
You can question someone’s actions without degrading their body.
You can challenge a decision without mocking someone’s clothes.
You can hold people accountable without stripping away their humanity.
Being spiritual does not make us infallible.
Being intuitive does not make every opinion a divine truth.
Calling yourself enlightened does not excuse bullying.
Toxic spirituality is real.
Spiritual superiority is real.
And yes, toxic femininity is real too.
Sisterhood is not blindly agreeing with every woman.
It is speaking honestly while refusing to use another woman’s body, appearance or vulnerability as ammunition.
We can do better than this.
We must do better than this.
Because if our spirituality does not make us kinder, more thoughtful and more aware of the harm carried by our words…
What exactly is it teaching us?
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