07/05/2026
Relationship sabotage is often never where you think it is.
Having difficult feelings, reactions and frustrations about your partner is not the issue in itself.
It's what you do with them that counts.
Most people are chronically trying to manage them and think positively and all they get in return is a love that is 'performed'.
A relationship might have glimmers of real and connected, but if you cannot talk to your partner about certain topics out of fear of conflict or upset, then your relationship is being managed.
This is an intimacy killer for sure and even that ends up being performed in a lot of cases.
You want a deeply committed, connected, fun, playful and intimate love and you have to stop with the 'making do', the settling, the performance, the excuses, and the constant self-abandonment that keeps the real relationship just out of reach.
Because intimacy is not created through managing how you come across or trying to manage your partner.
It is created naturally when two people stop trying to micromanage the environment and avoid discomfort.
Most people are trying to preserve the relationship they already have.
Very few are willing to dismantle the patterns that are preventing the relationship they actually want deep down.
My clients are willing to go 'there' and create something way beyond the norm.
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