Neurodiversity Support

Neurodiversity Support I am Kelly, Founder of Neurodiversity Support. Using lived experience & expertise https://hopp.bio/neurodiversitysupport

I help individuals and families understand neurodiversity through kind, neuroprofile assessments, coaching & advocacy. Neurodiverse Support services provide coaching, tutoring, and pre-assessments for children, families, and adults with conditions such as ADHD, Autism, ODD, PDA, anxiety, Dyscalculia, Dysgraphia, dyspraxia, Dyslexia, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, Emotional Dysregulation, and Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. We deliver expert reports for legal matters and advocate for children with Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND) regarding their Education, Health, and Care Plans (EHCP). Additional services include Couples Therapy, Pre-Screening Reports, ADHD coaching, and tutoring in Math, English, and Science, along with mentoring.

🌞 New Children’s Book: Love Does Not Run Out 🌞Sibling jealousy is such a common feeling for children, but it can feel re...
08/09/2026

🌞 New Children’s Book: Love Does Not Run Out 🌞
Sibling jealousy is such a common feeling for children, but it can feel really big, confusing and upsetting.
Sometimes children wonder why their brother or sister is getting more attention.
They may feel pushed out, forgotten, cross, sad, or worried that Mummy and Daddy love someone else more.
Love Does Not Run Out is a gentle children’s book that helps explain that a parent’s love does not become smaller when it is shared.
It helps children understand that:
💛 Jealousy is a normal feeling
💛 Fair does not always mean everyone getting exactly the same
💛 Fair means everyone getting what they need
💛 Brothers and sisters are not “stealing” love
💛 Mummy and Daddy have enough love for all their children
💛 Every child still belongs, still matters, and is still deeply loved
This book is ideal for families with siblings, new babies, children with additional needs, neurodiverse families, or any child who sometimes needs that extra reassurance.
A comforting story for children, parents, carers, and families learning how to share time, attention and love.
📖 Available here:
https://www.neurodiversitysupport.co.uk/product-page/love-does-not-run-out

🤪 YES, I’M LOUD. AND YES, I’M STRONG. BUT THAT DOESN’T MAKE ME INVINCIBLE.🤓Yes, I’m loud.I know I am. 😂Is it my ADHD? My...
01/09/2026

🤪 YES, I’M LOUD. AND YES, I’M STRONG. BUT THAT DOESN’T MAKE ME INVINCIBLE.🤓

Yes, I’m loud.

I know I am. 😂

Is it my ADHD? My autism? Anxiety? Short-person syndrome because I’ve spent my whole life being tiny and apparently decided very early on that I needed to be louder to be heard?

Probably a mixture of all of them.

But something I’ve realised is that when I’m anxious, I often get louder.

It’s almost as though my volume is trying to compensate for how uncomfortable or anxious I feel inside.

So when somebody says:

“Shhh, you’re being really loud.”
“Be quiet, everyone can hear you.”
“God, you’re loud.”

…it doesn’t magically make me quieter.

It makes me MORE anxious.

And sometimes that makes me even louder.

It’s a bit like telling somebody who is stressed to “CALM DOWN.”

Has anyone in the history of calming down ever actually calmed down because someone told them to? 😂

But there’s another side to me too.

I’m a strong person.

I have strong opinions.
I have very specific ideas about how I want to do things.
I organise things.
I question things.
I speak up when something doesn’t feel right.
And I really, really don’t like dishonesty.

I also seem to have an uncanny ability to ask the question that somebody really didn’t want me to ask.

Sometimes I think I accidentally bring out people’s true personalities.

And that makes me a bit like Marmite.

You either love me or you don’t. And actually, I’m okay with that.

What I’m not okay with is the idea that because somebody is confident, outspoken or strong, it is acceptable to verbally attack them.

Over the last year I’ve had several situations where people, including people in positions where I would expect much better, have spoken to me in ways that I would never dream of speaking to somebody else.

And I do sometimes wonder:

Have I got up their nose?

Have I challenged something they didn’t want challenged?

Have I caught them out?

Does my confidence irritate them?

Does the fact that I organise things and often make them successful bother some people?

Who knows.

But here’s the bit people probably don’t see.

When somebody verbally attacks me, I normally stand there looking completely fine.

I’ll answer back.
I’ll hold my ground.
I’ll probably even make a joke afterwards.

People probably walk away thinking:

“Kelly can handle herself.”

And I can.

But that doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt.

Inside, sometimes I want to cry.

Sometimes it takes me straight back to a time in my life when shouting, intimidation and aggression were something very different.

So when a man is standing over a woman, shouting at her, jabbing his finger towards her face, using his size or his voice to intimidate her…

what are we doing?

Why does anyone think that is acceptable?

And actually, this isn’t only about men and women. Nobody should believe that being angry gives them permission to intimidate another human being.

Being strong doesn’t mean you don’t have feelings.

Being outspoken doesn’t mean you deserve aggression.

Being confident doesn’t mean you can’t be frightened.

Being successful doesn’t mean people are entitled to try to knock you down.

And being loud certainly doesn’t mean you aren’t anxious underneath it.

I love helping people.

I love organising things.

I love bringing people together.

I will probably always ask uncomfortable questions.

I will probably always call something out when it doesn’t feel right.

And yes…

I will probably always be a little bit loud. 😂

But maybe instead of immediately trying to silence the loud person, we should sometimes ask ourselves "what might be happening underneath the volume?"

And perhaps we all need reminding that you can disagree with somebody, strongly, without humiliating them, intimidating them or verbally abusing them.

Strong people still deserve kindness. ❤️

THE GREAT ADHD MYTH? — I have a problem with that title before we even start.I watched Channel 4’s The Great ADHD Myth? ...
23/08/2026

THE GREAT ADHD MYTH? — I have a problem with that title before we even start.

I watched Channel 4’s The Great ADHD Myth? and, although there were parts of the programme that I absolutely agreed with, I found the overall message incredibly short-sighted and damaging.

Calling ADHD a “myth”, even with a question mark after it, risks belittling thousands of children and adults who have finally begun to understand why they have struggled their entire lives.

People who have spent years believing they were lazy.

Difficult.

Disorganised.

Too much.

Not trying hard enough.

Bad at school.

Bad at parenting.

Bad at life.

Then suddenly they understand their brain, their needs and why certain things have always been so difficult.

That understanding can be life-changing.

Now, there ARE things in this programme that I wholeheartedly agree we need to talk about.

Diet? Absolutely.

I saw the difference diet could make with my own son when he was very young. We removed artificial colours and certain additives from his diet because we could physically see the effect they had on him.

Less screen time? Yes.

Screens are designed to keep us engaged. For children who already seek stimulation and immediate reward, pulling themselves away can be incredibly difficult.

More time outside? Yes.

More exercise? Yes.

More family time? Definitely.

Less ultra-processed food? Yes.

But here’s the enormous piece I felt was missing:

WHY are families living like this?

Parents aren’t necessarily putting their children on screens because they can’t be bothered to parent.

People are working longer hours simply to pay their mortgage, rent, electricity and food bills.

Parents are exhausted.

Children are exhausted.

Families are rushing from school to childcare to homework to dinner to bed.

Schools are under enormous pressure to meet targets.

Children are expected to sit still, concentrate, produce written work, meet deadlines and demonstrate their ability through an increasingly rigid education and examination system.

Add social media, peer pressure, lack of outdoor freedom and an increasingly fast-paced world into that mixture and OF COURSE some children are struggling.

But that does not mean ADHD suddenly isn’t real.

What I found particularly difficult was seeing enormous conclusions being drawn from an “experiment” involving one child. One child doing better with more exercise, less screen time, improved diet and more individual attention does not prove that ADHD doesn’t exist.

It proves that environment matters.

And I have been saying that for years.

If you put a neurodiverse child into an environment that works against their nervous system, they will struggle more.

Change that environment and they may struggle less.

That isn’t evidence against neurodiversity.

It is an argument for reasonable adjustments.

And medication is another area where I think we desperately need nuance.

I am naturally much more interested in holistic approaches wherever they are appropriate, sleep, nutrition, movement, environment, regulation, understanding behaviour, reducing demands and making accommodations. But I have also met many people for whom ADHD medication has been genuinely life-changing.

We shouldn’t shame those people either.

The problem arises when medication becomes the only intervention offered because everything around the child remains exactly the same.

A child struggles to sit through six hours of school.

Medication.

Still struggling?

Adjust the medication.

But perhaps we also need to ask:

Does the school environment need adjusting?

Does the workload need adjusting?

Does the sensory environment need adjusting?

Does the way we teach need adjusting?

Does the examination system need adjusting?

Does this child need movement rather than punishment?

Do they need regulation rather than detention?

Do they need somebody to understand why the behaviour is happening?

Because perhaps the bigger “myth” is that every child should be able to function successfully within exactly the same system.

ADHD isn’t the only neurodevelopmental difference we recognise.

Are we going to suggest dyslexia isn’t real because better teaching helps a dyslexic child?

Or autism isn’t real because an autistic child thrives when their sensory environment is adapted?

Of course not.

Support reducing someone’s difficulties doesn’t prove those difficulties were imaginary. It proves that the support worked.

And this is exactly why I developed my NeuroProfile assessments.

I am far less interested in simply putting a label on somebody than I am in understanding the whole person.

What are we seeing?

Why might we be seeing it?

What happens at home?

What happens at school or work?

What are their sensory needs?

How do they regulate?

What are their executive-function difficulties?

What are their strengths?

What environmental factors are making things harder?

And most importantly:

What can we actually change to help this person flourish?

Sometimes diagnosis and medication are part of that journey.

Sometimes lifestyle changes are part of it.

Sometimes accommodations are transformative.

Usually, it isn’t one single thing.

So yes, let’s have the conversation about diet.

Let’s talk about screens.

Let’s get children outside.

Let’s give families more time together.

Let’s question whether medication is always the first answer.

But let’s ALSO talk about poverty, working hours, childcare, school pressure, examinations, SEN provision, class sizes, overstimulation and a society that expects every human brain to operate in exactly the same way.

Because telling people “ADHD might be a myth” is easy.

Changing the world that neurodiverse people are expected to survive in is much harder.

And THAT is the conversation I wish Channel 4 had started.

Channel 4

With so many questions on what ADHD is, should we really be giving so many children powerful psychiatric drugs to medicate it?The rise of ADHD is one the most prevalent health issues of the modern age. NHS data shows that there has been a 200% increase in the number of people being referred for an A...

❤️ To the parents getting ready to leave their child at university for the first time...I was you this time last year.Th...
18/08/2026

❤️ To the parents getting ready to leave their child at university for the first time...
I was you this time last year.
The shopping.
The packing.
The excitement.
The pride.
And underneath all of it, that little voice asking:
Will they be OK without us?

Last year, before my daughter left for her first year, I wrote Student Life: A Survival Guide for Your First Year at Uni.

Yes, it's full of practical advice about cooking, money, safety, flatmates, relationships, mental health, friendships and university life.

But I also wanted it to contain something you can't buy in the university section of a shop.
Home. ❤️
A reminder that it's OK to miss us.
It's OK to make mistakes.
It's OK not to have everything figured out.
And it's always OK to call.
We've now reached the other side of that first year.

Madison is stronger and more independent.
She's learned to navigate university life for herself.
But she still misses home sometimes.
She still needs Mum and Dad now and again.
And she still rings for a chat.

I've realised that's not the opposite of independence.
That's exactly what a safety net is supposed to look like.
There's even a special page at the end of the paperback called “A Note From Home”, left blank for whoever gives the book to write their own message.

So write something only the two of you will understand.
Tell them you're proud.
Tell them to ring.
Tell them home isn't going anywhere.
Then pop it into their suitcase. ❤️

They might roll their eyes now.
But there may be a night in a few weeks' time when they're very glad it's there.

📖 PAPERBACK — available on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Student-Life-Survival-Budgeting-Independent/dp/B0GVXZXTDL

📱 DIGITAL COPY — instant access:
https://www.neurodiversitysupport.co.uk/product-page/a-student-guide-for-your-first-year-at-university

🎓 University teaches them their degree. But who teaches them everything else?Last year, when my daughter went off to uni...
16/08/2026

🎓 University teaches them their degree. But who teaches them everything else?
Last year, when my daughter went off to university for the first time, I realised just how much we suddenly expect young adults to know.
So I created Student Life: A Survival Guide for Your First Year at Uni.

And this isn't just another packing checklist.

It's over 120 pages about actually living at university.

🍳 Easy breakfasts, lunches & dinners
🥘 Slow-cooker meals & batch cooking
🧼 Food hygiene & shared-kitchen survival
💷 Budgeting & making that student loan last
💰 What to do if you run out of money
🏠 Flatmates, kitchens, bathrooms & housemate etiquette
🔐 Personal safety & nights out
🍺 Alcohol & making safer choices
❤️ Sexual health, consent & boundaries
🧠 Mental health & getting help early
👯 Making friends & joining societies
🥺 Homesickness
📚 Falling behind with work & how to get back on track
🏡 Staying connected with home

Plus plenty of humour because nobody needs another book lecturing them about how to be an adult. 😂

We've now experienced that first year ourselves.

And yes, there were times when Madison still needed Mum and Dad.
That's exactly the point.
The goal isn't to send them away knowing absolutely everything.
It's to give them the confidence and tools to start figuring things out for themselves, and remind them where to turn when they can't.

If you know someone heading into their first year at university, this is the guide I wanted my own daughter to have.

📱 DIGITAL COPY — instant access:
https://www.neurodiversitysupport.co.uk/product-page/a-student-guide-for-your-first-year-at-university

📖 PAPERBACK — available on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Student-Life-Survival-Budgeting-Independent/dp/B0GVXZXTDL

🎓 This time last year, I was getting ready to send my daughter off to university for the very first time. ❤️Madison was ...
14/08/2026

🎓 This time last year, I was getting ready to send my daughter off to university for the very first time. ❤️

Madison was the first in our family to go to uni, and alongside all the pride and excitement, I kept thinking...
Have we actually prepared her for living away from home?
Not academically, she'd worked hard for that.

I meant the everyday stuff.

Cooking. Budgeting. Living with strangers. Staying safe. Making friends. Coping with homesickness. Knowing when to ask for help. And navigating all those little situations Mum and Dad had always been around to help with.

So I wrote her a book.
📚 Student Life: A Survival Guide for Your First Year at Uni
I wanted it to feel like practical advice from home, without Mum actually being there nagging. 😂

A year later, we've lived that first year.
Madison is stronger, more confident and far more independent.
But does she still miss home? Yes.
Does she still ring Mum and Dad for a chat when she needs us? Absolutely. ❤️
And I'm glad.
Because one of the biggest things we've learned is that becoming independent doesn't mean suddenly having to do everything alone.

So I'm sharing Madison's book again for this year's new university students.
If you're currently buying bedding, pans, towels and everything else on the university list, perhaps add one more thing to their suitcase.

Something for the bits that aren't on the list. ❤️

“Missing home doesn’t mean you’re not ready. It means you had something worth missing.”

📱 DIGITAL COPY — instant access:
https://www.neurodiversitysupport.co.uk/product-page/a-student-guide-for-your-first-year-at-university

📖 PAPERBACK — available on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Student-Life-Survival-Budgeting-Independent/dp/B0GVXZXTDL

Good morning all I would love to get to 1000 followers… please can you help by inviting your friends to like my page and...
08/08/2026

Good morning all

I would love to get to 1000 followers… please can you help by inviting your friends to like my page and share my page. So much appreciation.. have a fantastic Saturday ….

Stay Quirky

Stay Brilliant 🤩

Kelly

Did you know?Many parents are unaware of just how many vaccines are included in the UK childhood immunisation schedule b...
04/08/2026

Did you know?

Many parents are unaware of just how many vaccines are included in the UK childhood immunisation schedule before a child reaches school age.

This post is not about telling anyone what to do. Every parent has the right to make the decision they believe is best for their child.

For our family, this conversation began over 20 years ago. When our son Joshua was 18 months old, he received his first MMR vaccination. Ten days later, he suffered his first prolonged seizure. Over the months and years that followed, he continued to experience seizures and was eventually diagnosed with Landau–Kleffner syndrome, a rare childhood epilepsy that affected his speech, language and development.

Joshua is now 22 years old. Following his illness and subsequent medical assessments, his treating specialists advised that he should not receive any further vaccinations, and he did not continue with the remainder of the childhood vaccination schedule.

I am not suggesting that Joshua’s experience is what happens to every child. It is not.

What I do believe is that every parent should have the opportunity to:
• Understand the childhood immunisation schedule.
• Ask questions openly.
• Discuss their child’s individual medical history with healthcare professionals.
• Receive balanced information about potential benefits and known risks.
• Make a fully informed decision without fear of judgement.

Whether you choose to vaccinate, delay, or decline, informed consent should always be based on respectful discussion and access to clear information.

After more than two decades, our family’s experience continues to shape how I think about informed consent. I believe parents deserve to be listened to, supported, and given the information they need to make the decisions that are right for their own child.

My book ‘Because I’ve been there’ is at its last edit stage. Please keep an eye out to find out more.

Where you can have an inclusive camping holiday Wrights care farm project.
26/07/2026

Where you can have an inclusive camping holiday Wrights care farm project.

I have now passed my Honours degree.. something that I have wanted for years.. it’s been a hard slog but perseverance br...
22/07/2026

I have now passed my Honours degree.. something that I have wanted for years.. it’s been a hard slog but perseverance brings results …. Can I now call myself a scientist …. 🤔

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