Molly’s Chat

15/07/2025

24/05/2025

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Stand up counted, always. Gut instincts are NEVER wrong.

A lot of good can come from the most terrible situations - just ride the storm and clear the toxic.

Be safe, be happy be YOU ❤️

22/05/2025

So very true, good always over powers evil 🙌🏻

No matter how educated, talented, rich or cool you think you are, how you treat people is what defines you in the end.

It's nice to be nice!

18/05/2025

Liars are always the loudest…..

06/03/2025

Bright Sky is a domestic abuse support app. Free to download it has features that enable users to take self-assessments to determine if they are in an abusive relationship. It has a journal feature to record incidents and a directory of support services
https://orlo.uk/Ih3ok

01/03/2025

Men that abuse women physically, emotionally or mentally are some of the nicest and friendliest men you will ever meet. Initially, they feel like an answered prayer. The devil doesn’t come in a dressed cape and pointy horns.

12/02/2025

Abuse by proxy - what does this mean?

“People who side with your abuser and shift blame on you are no different than your abuser, toxic is toxic, even by proxy”

Abuse by proxy is the use of other people to stalk, threaten, harass, control, or manipulate the victim. Abusers are addicted to abuse. Abusing their victims on their own is not enough so they pull in other people to do their bidding. Abusers often come from abusive backgrounds and their families will not only side with them but probably have generations of practice.

If you know someone in the family is abusing others , don’t put yourself in the position of abusing by proxy.

Sadly, it’s so common for family and ex partners to create misery to their victims. If you have experienced this damaging strategy or going through it, you have to have the courage to walk and keep walking. You block, you remove yourself and you disconnect your energy from their traps. This in itself is a painful process, but the only way you will escape the harm of an abuser who is on a mission.

Walk and keep walking. Stand up and be counted. Know your worth. Do not support abusers.

30/01/2025

To ensure that we can reach as many women as possible we also offer our Freedom Programme in the evening, the next programme starts in April.

This programme is for women who are or have been affected by domestic abuse. If you would like further information please contact our Women's Centre on 01473 228270 or complete the referral form on our website. www.lighthousewa.org.uk

28/01/2025

Do you know the difference between healthy, unhealthy, and abusive relationships? 🤔💔 Understanding these distinctions is crucial for our emotional well-being and personal growth. Let's talk about it! Share your thoughts below. 👇

25/01/2025

Love shouldn’t hurt ….

24/01/2025

Toxic v Abusive

Knowing the differences is very important - either way, both require an exit plan!

Imagine being bitten by a snake , instead of focussing on the healing of the poison, you chase the snake to understand why it bit you and to prove you didn’t deserve it!?!

23/01/2025

Just a gentle reminder….