04/09/2026
School is back. Is your child, tween or teen returning or starting out?
Getting them to share about their day can be a challenge. Some love this, others find it tricky to express themselves.
These are a few helpful tips to help them feel more comfortable.
Listening, Let your child share whatβs on their mind, don't interrupt, don't try to fix it, just listen.
Look out for changes in behaviour or mood, these are their queues, you can reflect these, such as "I've noticed you are not saying much, I'm wondering if something not nice happened today? "
Naming and validating feelings β Help them to understand how they are feeling, that they are ok to feel and talk about. The I'm wondering line works well here as well.
Offer gentle reassurance, Comfort lands best after empathy, don't jump to rescuing them, but instead hearing them, and asking what they would like you to do to help them.
Everyone is different, the way we share, how easy or not easy, and the support we crave is different in us all. It's your role to let your child know that it's ok to be different, different is awesome π
If it's really tough, reach out for support.
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