11/05/2026
Exam season is here - with GCSEs and SATs starting this week, a lot of families and households will be feeling the pressure. It’s the kind of week where nerves can run hot.
Exam stress anxiety can show up in lots of ways. Sometimes it looks like over-revising and perfectionism. Sometimes it looks like avoidance, tears, irritability, headaches, tummy aches, or “I don’t care” (when they actually care a lot). Anxiety isn’t a sign your child is failing - it’s often a sign their nervous system is trying to protect them from pressure, uncertainty, and fear of getting it wrong.
A few things that can help in the run-up to exams: keep routines steady, make revision bite-sized, build in proper breaks, and prioritise sleep and food. And when they’re spiralling, try connection before correction: “I can see this feels big. Let’s take one step at a time.”
You don’t need to make the anxiety disappear to support them. You just need to help them feel less alone in it - and remind them they are more than a grade.