24/08/2026
Being told that something we did has hurt someone can feel uncomfortable, and our first reaction may be to defend ourselves.
Listening doesn’t mean automatically agreeing or taking all the blame. It means being open to hearing the other person and becoming more aware of how our actions may have affected them.
We all see the world through our own eyes. Our thoughts and perceptions are shaped by our lived experiences, so two people can experience the same situation very differently. We may not remember it in the same way, but we can still make space for each other’s experience.
Sometimes, speaking about the hurt is not an attack. It is an attempt to clear the air before it turns into distance or resentment.
Growth is not only about understanding ourselves. It is also about listening, becoming more aware and considering how our actions can affect others.