Jane Alcock Counselling

Jane Alcock Counselling BACP and ACC Reg Accredited counsellor. Works with individual adults online or in-person in West Meon

15/06/2026

This powerful excerpt from the late Virginia Guiffre's 'Nobody's Girl' beautifully captures the often unseen scars that trauma can leave behind. Recovery is possible but understanding the depth of these wounds and the ways they may affect our lives is often an important first step on the healing journey ❤️‍🩹

'Trauma is such a cunning enemy. Those of us who've survived its terrors often marvel at how quickly it can recede, at least at first. Once you get to safety, your visible wounds - your cuts, your bruises - heal and fade. Your psyche too, revives, like a drowning man who, pulled from the depths, somehow spits up dark water and opens his eyes. But recovering victims like me know too well how trauma lurks in the shadows, always there. No matter how many years go by, or how many therapists you see, it can rise, unbidden, seemingly out of nowhere. A song on the radio may summon it. Or the scent of a stranger's cologne.....'

🎄✨Christmas Greetings to all my clients, friends and page followers!✨🎄I recognise that, while this time of year can brin...
24/12/2025

🎄✨Christmas Greetings to all my clients, friends and page followers!✨🎄
I recognise that, while this time of year can bring joy and togetherness, it can also be challenging emotionally. If you are struggling, please know that you are not alone, and my thoughts are with you.
Wishing you and your loved ones a season of peace, comfort, hope and new beginnings 🙏🌟

27/05/2025

'Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose’ – Viktor Frankl.

The only thing that made sense to Frankl, a brilliant psychologist, neurologist, philosopher and holocaust survivor, was making meaning out of his soul-wrenching experience.

No one can be better qualified to make this statement. However, the idea that, in essence, you are not your circumstances challenged me this morning.

The meaning we derive from our experiences and how we respond to them reflects newer research on the concept of post-traumatic growth (PTG) and refers to the positive changes that some individuals, including myself, report after experiencing trauma (e.g., see Joseph, Haines, Tedeschi and Shakespeare-Finch). It is more than resilience and not to be mistaken with happiness – it is triggered by and coexists with continuing struggle and distress. The positive changes include a greater appreciation of life and a deeper connection with others - they can also be a catalyst to spiritual growth.

Please know too that if you're finding it hard to believe that you may grow and flourish through whatever suffering you’re experiencing now, there is no need for shame or guilt - but it may bring you a glimmer of hope and comfort.

Today is   Day but every day can be a chance for us to encourage open conversations about mental health. A problem share...
06/02/2025

Today is Day but every day can be a chance for us to encourage open conversations about mental health.
A problem shared is a burden lightened.
See tips and resources below.

On 6th February 2025, we celebrate Time To Talk Day, a day dedicated to fostering open conversations about mental health. We can help our own mental health by focusing on the 5 Ways of Wellbeing: Being Active, Connecting, Keep Learning, Taking Notice, and Giving. These simple yet powerful actions ca

24/12/2024

Best wishes to you all for Christmas and the New Year 🙏🌟🎄🌟

Excellent blog offering help and hope for many of us who, as parent carers of children with special needs, have experien...
05/06/2024

Excellent blog offering help and hope for many of us who, as parent carers of children with special needs, have experienced multiple traumas ❤‍🩹

https://www.affinityhub.uk/blog/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR0YJQQ4dMLimKF0d1TrDFJ2_JJ2mbUoIQtgJJV_OrvpGv3TIqpkYDYYak4_aem_AUaa09liKvXOsuFLbMG5VaQ0BLZuZTziLg1eFvklI7FtsBMH6LKcjjYs6iyxQpZ70Qz67053h6yvN_qQgdQlQ1le

Parent Carer Trauma and EMDR Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a procedure that uses different phases to treat post traumatic stress disorder. The approach is underpinned by the idea that traumatic memories may become stuck and need help to be processed and stored in a way that...

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