23/08/2021
âThink positivelyâ is a scam đŁ
Why?!
Because you have to give your self permission to go there so that you know you can come back from it
As an over thinker, I spent years trying to âthink positivelyâ and stop my mind from going to dark places.
Only to fail and be drowned by anxiety and fear.
Just think positively I believe is a scam.
Why?
Because we have so many thoughts mostly we donât control.
We DO have control of what thought we hold onto and run with.
I allow myself to space to go to that dark thought, that dark possibility and trial out the scenarios.
I allow my mind to test drive âwhat if the worst happenedâ
I do this because I know it allows me to hold space for the thought and by doing this I self soothe and regulate. Knowing that I could get myself back from the worst.
Whatâs key to remember here, I donât allow myself to be engulfed by the thought, I donât turn the thought into a feeling or an emotional response.
I allow it to wash over me, knowing I can return myself to inner peace and stabilise my mind to a higher vibration.
By doing this, I am not numbing, avoiding and suppressing.
I am showing myself strength, coping mechanisms and inner peace.
I help my clients allow themselves to go there, into the darkness and show them how to emerge and question the thought so they can self regulate and soothe.
Teaching them tools. To reach for the higher vibrational frequency once they have processed the lower ones.
We have to allow ourselves to navigate the shadows and the depths of our being.
So we can rise up, empowered.