25/08/2026
What would I change if I could? 💜
I would change the medical industry’s understanding of what it REALLY means to live with epilepsy, especially for those living with complex, drug-resistant or multiple diagnoses.
Too often, I’ve found that medical professionals understand epilepsy through the lens of seizures and treatment.
But epilepsy is so much more than the seizure itself.
It is the impact that exists between seizures.
It is the exhaustion. The fear. The uncertainty. The medication side effects. The restrictions. The loss of independence. The inability to participate in activities that once brought joy. The disruption to education, work, friendships, family life and everyday experiences.
And it’s not just the person with epilepsy who is affected.
Parents and caregivers are navigating an entirely different life too. Immediate family members are learning how to adapt, support, advocate and cope with a diagnosis that can change everything.
When a diagnosis comes seemingly out of the blue, nothing is as it was before.
There can be a huge amount of grief involved — grieving the life you thought you and your child would have, while simultaneously trying to learn how to live this new reality.
That takes time.
And sometimes, the attitudes we encounter within healthcare can feel dismissive, nonchalant or even blasé. Not necessarily because someone doesn’t care, but because their understanding of epilepsy can be very different from the reality of living it every single day.
For some, epilepsy is about controlling seizures.
For those living with it, epilepsy is life.
It affects what you can do, where you can go, how you feel, how you sleep, how you learn, how you socialise and whether you can participate in life in the way you want to.
So if I could change one thing, I would ask for more than clinical knowledge.
I would ask for understanding, compassion and recognition of the person behind the diagnosis.
Because treating the seizures is important.
But understanding the life that exists around those seizures is just as important. 💜