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Jas Bamra Hypnotherapy I help those who have suffered loss in their life to navigate beyond the fog of grief, and related issues, to lead a fully present life again.

That is what grief support with me looks like.We go through each feeling, one at a time, so you stop being surprised by ...
12/10/2026

That is what grief support with me looks like.

We go through each feeling, one at a time, so you stop being surprised by yourself and start understanding what each one is telling you about how much they meant to you.

Carry on thinking you are doing it wrong and you spend months, sometimes years, grieving and judging yourself at the same time.

You do not have to.

If you have been judging yourself for how you are grieving, DM SUPPORT if you want to talk it through on a free 30 minute discovery call.

10/10/2026

A little reminder to look back at the person you once were, and be proud of the person you've become. ๐Ÿค

Today, on World Mental Health Day, let's remember that our mental and emotional wellbeing matters, especially when we're navigating grief, loss and the unexpected challenges life brings ๐Ÿซ‚

Life doesn't always turn out the way we imagined it would.

We experience loss. We navigate grief. We face challenges we never expected, and sometimes, we have to find a way forward when life feels nothing like we thought it would.

And yet, here you are โœจ๏ธ

Still here. Still growing. Still loving. Still finding reasons to smile ๐ŸŒŸ

Perhaps you've become more compassionate because you understand what it feels like to hurt. Perhaps you've become kinder because you know how much a little kindness can mean. Perhaps you've learnt to love more deeply because you understand just how precious life and the people in it really are ๐Ÿ’–

Take a moment to look at yourself through the eyes of the little person you once were.

Look at everything you've been through. Everything you've overcome. The love you've given, the lives you've touched and the person you've become.

I hope you realise how far you've come.

Grief and loss change us. They can leave us questioning so much about life, ourselves and the future we once imagined. But they can also invite us to discover strengths we never knew we had, see life differently and recognise what truly matters.

โœจ๏ธ This is at the heart of The Greatest Gift โœจ๏ธ

Not pretending that loss doesn't hurt, or that everything happens for a reason. But discovering what our experiences can teach us about ourselves, how we want to live, and the love we still have to give.

You don't have to be who you were before life changed you.

You can honour everything you've been through and still be proud of who you are becoming โค๏ธ

So, if no one has reminded you lately, let this be your reminder:

Look how far you've come. Look at the love you carry. Look at the person you've become.

And give yourself a little credit for making it here. ๐Ÿค

Maybe you snap at people over nothing, or you feel strangely numb at moments that should you should be celebrating, or y...
08/10/2026

Maybe you snap at people over nothing, or you feel strangely numb at moments that should you should be celebrating, or you avoid certain conversations without knowing why, and none of it makes sense to you.

It is usually not new either.

If you think about it, you have probably reacted this same way before, at some other hard point in your life, long before this loss.

It might go back to a time you were let down and never said anything about it.

It might be from years of being the one who copes, so you learned early to push feelings down instead of showing them.

Whatever it is, it did not start with this loss, the loss has just knocked it loose again.

I do not just hold space and talk about what happened, and how you feel in your grief journey.

I use a technique called Rapid Transformational Therapy to actually take you back to the first time you felt this, or acted this way, right back to where it started, and we work on that moment directly.

We get to the root of it, whatever that actually is for you, and we work through it properly, not just talk about it once and move on.

Once that is dealt with, you stop snapping at people who do not deserve it, you stop going numb at the moments that matter, and you start reacting like yourself again, instead of like whatever old pattern has been running underneath your grief this whole time.

If there is something underneath your grief you cannot quite name, DM SUPPORT and I will send you the link to book a free 30 minute call.

06/10/2026

My amazing client is a schoolteacher.

Her husband transitioned just over a year ago, and she kept a photo of the two of them on her desk.

One day a pupil noticed it and asked her straight out, where is your husband.

Her instinct was to soften it, to say something like he has gone away, or he is a star in the sky now.

But she caught herself and just told them plainly, he passed away.

The children were quiet for a second, said they were sorry, and then one of them said he looked like their uncle, and the whole class ended up laughing about it.

She told me afterwards it actually cleared the tension in the room, for her and for them.

This is something I teach a lot of parents and carers.

I want you to know; Children are not confused by the word died, they are confused by the softened version, the star in the sky, the gone away, because their minds are black and white, and vague language leaves them trying to work out if the person is actually coming back.

Being factual is not being harsh.

It is what actually lets a child, or honestly anyone, understand what has happened and start to process it properly.

Do you feel unsure how to talk to your own children about a loss in the family?

If your health has taken a dip lately, your cycle, your sleep, your energy, and you cannot explain why, that could be yo...
05/10/2026

If your health has taken a dip lately, your cycle, your sleep, your energy, and you cannot explain why, that could be your grief showing up in a different way, and that is the kind of thing we would look at together.

Book a free 30 minute discovery call, and I will show you how. Link in bio.

03/10/2026

๐—œ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต ๐—œ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฑ ๐—ธ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ปโ€ฆ

It took me nearly ten years after my Papa passed away to realise that I didnโ€™t have to carry all the guilt and regret of what I could have, would have or should have done differently ๐Ÿค

For years, I looked back and wondered if I could have done more. If I should have noticed something. If there was something I could have done that might have changed what happened.๐Ÿ•Š

It wasnโ€™t until I began looking more deeply at the emotional weight I was carrying that I realised just how much guilt I had been holding onto ๐Ÿ˜ž

Through Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) and deeper emotional work, I was able to begin releasing that guilt, with love, compassion and grace, and stop punishing myself for what I believe I should have known. The truth is, I simply couldnโ€™t have known what I know now โœจ๏ธ

๐ŸŒŸ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—ธ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ธ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„.๐ŸŒŸ

And letting go of that guilt didnโ€™t mean letting go of my Papa.

It gave me the freedom to love him without the weight of regret.

To hold our relationship differently.

To remember him with more love and less โ€œwhat if?โ€

Because hindsight gives us information we simply didnโ€™t have at the time โค๏ธ

We make the best choices we can with the knowledge, understanding and circumstances we have in that moment.

So if youโ€™re carrying guilt after losing someone you love, perhaps you need to hear this too:

๐ŸŒŸ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฝ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฑ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ธ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป.๐ŸŒŸ

Let the love stay.
Let the guilt go. ๐Ÿค

And if you're not sure where to begin, I am here.
DM me ๐Ÿ’Œ

Does this resonate with you? What are your thoughts? Leave a comment โค๏ธ

This is my Papaโ€™s jumper.I still wear it from time to timeโ€ฆIt lost his smell years ago, but that is not really why I sti...
30/09/2026

This is my Papaโ€™s jumper.

I still wear it from time to timeโ€ฆ

It lost his smell years ago, but that is not really why I still put it on.

There is something about wearing it that makes missing him feel less like it catching me off guard, and more like something I have chosen to sit with for a minute.

You do not need some big ceremony for missing someone to count.

Sometimes it is just a jumper, a smell, a chair nobody else sits in, a certain drive you still take because it reminds you of them.

I do not think that means I am living in the past.

To me it means I am choosing to let him still be part of my life, in my own way, instead of leaving him behind because a certain number of years have gone by.

If there is something like that for you, a jumper, a mug, a song, a chair, you do not owe anyone an explanation for it, and you do not have to stop, whatever anyone else thinks you should be doing by now.

If you have a version of this and you have never told anyone why it matters so much, tell me in the comments. ๐Ÿ‘‡

Or save this for the day someone questions why you still do it.

Leaving the house has started to feel harder than it should since your loss.Everything outside takes actual energy you d...
29/09/2026

Leaving the house has started to feel harder than it should since your loss.

Everything outside takes actual energy you do not have spare right now, and staying in means you do not have to pretend you are fine in front of anyone.

You say you will go, then cancel an hour before with some excuse about being busy.

Maybe you have sat in the car outside and turned straight back around.

You keep saying maybe next time, and next time comes, and you say it again.

I see this with the clients I work with, you tell yourself you are just tired, when it was never actually about being tired at all.

The longer that goes on, the fewer people keep inviting you, the fewer things you have to say yes to, until your world is just your own four walls and a handful of people who still make the effort to ask.

What actually helps is not forcing yourself out before you are ready.

It is working out what specifically stops you from leaving the house, the small talk, the fear of someone asking how you are and not knowing what to say, or simply not having anything left to give people that day, and dealing with that directly instead of forcing your way through another dinner you did not want to go to.

Once that is done, going out stops draining you before you have even left.

You get to actually want to go, choose the people you see, walk in without rehearsing your answer to โ€œhow are youโ€ in the car beforehand, and leave feeling like yourself again instead of exhausted before you have even sat down.

If you have stopped going out since your loss and deep down you know it is not really about being tired, DM SUPPORT and I will send you the link to book a free 30 minute call.

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