Inner Essence Counselling

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Integrative counsellor
MBACP
BA(Hons), MCs, PG Diploma
Neurodivergent Affirming
Solution focused

Sometimes traditional therapy spaces haven’t felt accessible, affirming, or truly understanding of neurodivergent and di...
06/08/2026

Sometimes traditional therapy spaces haven’t felt accessible, affirming, or truly understanding of neurodivergent and disabled experiences.

My counselling practice offers a compassionate, inclusive space where you can show up exactly as you are — without pressure to mask, explain, or fit into expectations that don’t work for you.
I work in a neurodiversity-affirming, disability-affirming and trauma-informed way, supporting clients at their own pace, in a way that feels safe and respectful.

Whether you’re autistic, ADHD, have Tourette’s or you’re living with a disability, managing chronic illness, or simply looking for a counsellor who understands difference with warmth and curiosity, you are welcome here.

Online sessions available.
You don’t need to fit in here. You belong here.

✨ You don't have to do this alone. ✨Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, and taking the first step towards support can ...
02/08/2026

✨ You don't have to do this alone. ✨

Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, and taking the first step towards support can be the hardest part. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, low mood, stress, life changes, or simply need someone to listen without judgement, I'm here to help.
I offer accessible counselling sessions by video or telephone, allowing you to access support from the comfort and privacy of your own space.

Not sure if counselling is right for you?

Let's have a FREE, no-obligation consultation. It's an opportunity for us to chat, discuss what you're looking for, answer any questions you may have, and see if we're the right fit—without any pressure or commitment.

If you're ready to take that first step, or you're simply curious about how counselling could help, send me a message today. I'd be honoured to support you on your journey.

📩 Get in touch to arrange your free consultation.

You don't have to mask to be accepted here.Counselling shouldn't be about changing who you are—it should be about creati...
29/07/2026

You don't have to mask to be accepted here.
Counselling shouldn't be about changing who you are—it should be about creating a space where you feel understood, respected, and safe enough to be yourself.
In my practice, I aim to offer:
• A calm, predictable environment.
• Clear and honest communication.
• Flexibility around sensory and communication needs.
• Permission to stim, pause, think, or simply be.
• A collaborative approach where your experience is valued.
You are the expert on your own life. My role isn't to "fix" you—it's to walk alongside you with curiosity, compassion, and respect.
Every autistic person is different, and therapy should honour those differences, not erase them.
You deserve to feel seen, heard, and accepted exactly as you are.

Feeling overwhelmed? Start small.Self-care isn't about doing everything perfectly—it's about noticing what your nervous ...
27/07/2026

Feeling overwhelmed? Start small.

Self-care isn't about doing everything perfectly—it's about noticing what your nervous system needs in this moment.

As a neurodivergent-affirming counsellor, I want to remind you that self-care doesn't have to look like someone else's routine. Your version might be resting instead of pushing through, moving your body in a way that feels safe, taking a break from sensory input, connecting with someone who gets you, or simply giving yourself permission to exist without masking.
There is no "right" way to care for yourself. There is only what supports you.

Which self-care option would you choose today? Share yours in the comments—I’d love to hear what helps you feel regulated and supported.

✨ You deserve compassion, not criticism.
✨ Your needs are valid.
✨ Your neurotype is not something to fix.

Healthy relationships aren't about never having conflict—they're about feeling safe, respected, and able to be yourself....
26/07/2026

Healthy relationships aren't about never having conflict—they're about feeling safe, respected, and able to be yourself.
One of the most important things I work on with clients is understanding boundaries. Boundaries aren't about pushing people away; they're about protecting your wellbeing and creating relationships where everyone knows what helps them feel safe.
For many neurodivergent and disabled people, boundaries can feel especially complicated. You may have spent years masking, people-pleasing, ignoring your own needs, or being told you're "too sensitive," "too much," or "too difficult." You might even question whether you're allowed to have needs at all.
The truth is:
✨ You don't have to earn respect.
✨ Your communication style is valid.
✨ Your sensory, emotional, and accessibility needs matter.
✨ Saying "no" doesn't make you selfish.
✨ Asking for accommodations isn't asking for special treatment—it's asking for equitable support.
Healthy relationships make space for differences. They allow for clear communication, repair after misunderstandings, and mutual respect for each person's needs and boundaries.
If this feels unfamiliar, you're not alone. Learning what healthy relationships look like is something many people have never been taught—and it's never too late to start.
Which part of this graphic resonates with you the most?
💚 Save this as a reminder that your boundaries deserve to be respected.

✨ No question is too small, too awkward, or too "silly."If you've ever wondered what counselling is really like, this is...
19/07/2026

✨ No question is too small, too awkward, or too "silly."
If you've ever wondered what counselling is really like, this is your chance to ask! 💙
Maybe you're curious about:
🌱 What happens in a first session?
💭 How do you know if counselling is right for you?
🤝 How can therapy actually help?
❤️ Is what you're going through "big enough" to talk about?
Or perhaps you have a completely different question.
Drop your question in the comments, send me a message, or ask anonymously if that feels more comfortable. My goal is to help make counselling feel less mysterious and more accessible.
Let's start the conversation. What would you like to know about counselling? 👇

What does it mean when I say I'm a neurodivergent-affirming counsellor?It means I don't see your brain as something that...
18/07/2026

What does it mean when I say I'm a neurodivergent-affirming counsellor?
It means I don't see your brain as something that needs fixing.
Whether you're autistic, ADHD, dyslexic, dyspraxic, AuDHD, or you're exploring whether you're neurodivergent, therapy with me starts from the belief that your differences are valid—not flaws.
Many neurodivergent people have spent years masking, adapting, and wondering why life feels so exhausting. Often they've been told they're "too sensitive," "too much," "lazy," or "not trying hard enough." Therapy shouldn't repeat those messages.
Instead, we'll work together to understand you.
We'll explore:
🌱 What brings you to therapy and what's happening for you now.
🌱 How your life experiences, relationships, and nervous system have shaped the way you cope.
🌱 Your strengths, interests, values, and the things that help you feel safe and regulated.
🌱 The impact of burnout, masking, sensory differences, trauma, or feeling misunderstood.
🌱 What you need—not what other people expect of you.
Rather than asking, "What's wrong with you?" we'll gently ask, "What has happened to you, what makes sense for your brain, and what do you need to thrive?"
A neurodivergent-affirming approach also means therapy is flexible. You don't need to force eye contact, sit still, communicate in a particular way, or fit into a traditional idea of what therapy "should" look like.
You are welcome exactly as you are.
The relationship we build is at the heart of our work together. My role is to offer curiosity, compassion, and collaboration—not judgement. Together we can make sense of your experiences, understand your patterns, and find ways of living that feel more authentic, sustainable, and aligned with who you really are.
Because healing isn't about becoming someone else.
It's about feeling safe enough to become more fully yourself. 💚

Supporting autistic people isn't about changing who they are—it's about creating a therapeutic space where they feel und...
17/07/2026

Supporting autistic people isn't about changing who they are—it's about creating a therapeutic space where they feel understood, respected, and empowered to thrive.
As a neurodivergent counsellor, I know how important it is to move beyond stereotypes and recognise that every autistic person experiences the world differently. Counselling works best when it is strengths-based, affirming, collaborative, and tailored to the individual rather than expecting them to fit neurotypical expectations.
Some of the strategies I use include building trust at the client's pace, providing structure and predictability, communicating clearly, supporting sensory needs, developing practical coping strategies, and working alongside other professionals when appropriate to provide holistic care.
Neurodiversity isn't something to be "fixed." It's a different way of experiencing the world that deserves understanding, acceptance, and support.
What neurodiversity-affirming strategies have made the biggest difference for you or someone you support?

What's Your Stress Style? We all respond to stress differently. Which one sounds most like you? 👇🦥 A. The Procrastinator...
16/07/2026

What's Your Stress Style?

We all respond to stress differently. Which one sounds most like you? 👇

🦥 A. The Procrastinator – "I'll deal with it tomorrow..."
☕ B. The Overthinker – Replaying every conversation 100 times.
🦸 C. The Superhero – Helping everyone else before yourself.
🐢 D. The Turtle – Retreating from the world until it feels safe again.
💬 Comment with your letter (or emoji!) and tell us why. There's no right or wrong answer—just curiosity and self-awareness. ❤️

Remember: Your coping style isn't your identity. It's simply your mind's way of trying to protect you, and with the right support, you can develop healthier ways to navigate life's challenges.

🌱 Be kind to yourself today. Small steps count.

Let's start a conversation that matters.Mental health, neurodiversity, and disability look different for every person. T...
15/07/2026

Let's start a conversation that matters.
Mental health, neurodiversity, and disability look different for every person. There is no "right" way to experience life, and every journey deserves to be heard with kindness and respect.
✨ We'd love to hear from you. Share one of the following in the comments:
🌱 Something that helps your mental wellbeing
🏆 A win you're proud of (big or small!)
💬 A challenge you've overcome and what helped
💡 A tip or resource that might support someone else
❤️ Something you wish others understood about mental health, neurodiversity, or disability
Your story could make someone else feel less alone today.
Please help us keep this a safe and supportive space by responding with empathy, respecting different experiences, and remembering that everyone's journey is unique.
If this post resonates with you, save it for later and share it with someone who might need a reminder that they are not alone.

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Wellingborough

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Thursday 9am - 4pm
Saturday 10am - 4pm
Sunday 9am - 2pm

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