04/11/2026
B IS FOR BIG!
Big feelings are hard for grown ups too. π€
"What's the matter with you?" can land as "there's something the matter with me."
"I wonder what your body is telling you" invites a child to know their body and feel safe in it.
I've said the first one during my teacher days and a mum of two. As a play therapist, I now start with me: What's coming up for me? Then I become curious with the behaviour.
When I was a teacher I created this guide using gentle scripts for staff when children's feelings got big. Now I use these words in Play Therapy sessions as a therapist and at home with my two children.
Now it's time to share this with you: a free script guide with gentle language for the moments when you want to connect but don't know where to start:
Here are a few starting points:
π· I wonderβ¦ curiosity without pressure
π· I imagineβ¦ validating their inner world
π· I noticeβ¦ grounding and gentle noticing
π· Empathyβ¦ you're not alone
Choose one sentence. Slow down. Listen for what comes next.
π Grab your free guide via the link in my bio.