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14/05/2026

STOP KILLING YOURSELF TRYING TO LIVE

This is a dialysis centre…

No elderly man or woman
More men than women

You will hear them saying…
I love this or that Energy Drink
I can’t do without a particular Drink

I’ll make sure I satisfy her today, I'm going ten rounds… you’re just dying while you think you’re living
Bottle water is just Ghc 5, sachet is less than Ghc 1

Kidney transplant is thousands and millions of cedis
Dialysis will wreck your savings
Take care of your kidneys today..

That's the only solution…
Drink enough water
Exercise daily
Stop energy drinks
Stop carbonated drinks
Stop drinking excessive alcohol
Stop smoking ooohhhh
Eat healthy 😌
Minimize the use of aphrodisiacs, especially ones you have to take into your body!

24/04/2026

Wofa Kay, I need your honest advice.
I’ve been married to my husband for almost 10 years, and in all that time, he has never taken me out—not even once. He travels, visits nice places, goes to restaurants… sometimes with the kids, but never with me. There’s always an excuse: it’ll be stressful, the kids need attention, or something else comes up. Meanwhile, I’m always home, taking care of the kids and handling everything in the house.
Our anniversary is coming up this June, and it’s also my birthday. I told him this year must be different. I begged him to take me somewhere—anywhere outside Accra, even if it’s just a weekend getaway. I even offered to pay or support financially. I just want to feel appreciated and experience something different after all these years.
At first, he agreed… but then he added a condition.
He said we should stop being intimate until June so he can “miss me” and make the trip feel special. I agreed. But then he went further and said before that trip, I must allow him to sleep with another woman—either the lady helping us at home or someone from his workplace. According to him, being with someone new will make him “desire me again” so I’ll feel new to him during the trip.
He made it clear: if I don’t agree, there will be no trip.
I was shocked. Hurt. Disrespected.
This is the man I’ve loved for years. The man I’ve had children with. The man I’ve supported with everything I had—including giving him all my savings back in 2014 to start the business that made him who he is today. I cook for him every day, take care of our home, and have stood by him through everything.
And now, just because I asked for a simple vacation… this is what he’s asking of me?
Is this fair? Is this what I deserve?

18/04/2026

Wofa Kay please help me share this.
I need some advice because this DNA issue has really been on my mind. My girlfriend gave birth about a month ago, and we’re planning to do the naming ceremony soon. After that, we also want to organize a small traditional marriage so she and the baby can officially move in with me. We’ve been together for almost two years. The pregnancy wasn’t exactly planned, but when it happened, she suggested we focus on having the baby first and then settle down properly, which sounded reasonable to me at the time.
Now that everything is getting close, I’ve been thinking a lot about doing a DNA test before we go ahead with the marriage. I don’t have much money, and the little I’ve saved is what we intend to use for the ceremony. But part of me wants to use some of it for the DNA test instead. I know bringing it up might upset her, especially because she’s been very supportive and serious about our future since the pregnancy. https://t.me/+UXVplHREcwkxNjU0
The thing is, before she got pregnant, she was very social — always attending events, hanging out with friends, posting on social media, and generally living an outgoing lifestyle. She always told me it was just for fun and networking, and honestly, I never caught her doing anything suspicious. I trusted her, and she never gave me direct reasons to doubt her. Since the baby arrived, she’s changed a lot — more focused, more calm, and fully committed to building a family together.
Some of my friends keep telling me I’m overthinking because they say the baby looks exactly like me, especially around the eyes and forehead. That’s making me feel like maybe I’m worrying for nothing. At the same time, I keep hearing stories about people who skipped DNA tests and later regretted it. That’s what’s making me hesitate.
So now I’m stuck. Should I just move forward with the naming ceremony and marriage plans and forget about the DNA test? Or should I use part of the ceremony money to do the test first for peace of mind, even if it might create tension between us? I really want us to settle down happily, but I also don’t want to carry doubts into marriage.

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08/04/2026

Can love survive under this kind of relationship condition? 🤔

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04/04/2026

Campus Relationship Gone Wrong
Hi, anonymous wofa Kay,
I’m a final year student, and I’ve been in a relationship since level 100. We’ve been through everything together—assignments, exams, financial struggles.
I truly believed we were going to end up together.
Recently, I noticed he started acting distant. He hides his phone, spends less time with me, and always has excuses.
One day, I decided to check, and that’s when I found out… he’s dating another girl on campus.
When I confronted him, he said he was “confused” and needed space. Meanwhile, he’s still talking to both of us.
I feel heartbroken and used. After everything we’ve built, I don’t understand how he could do this.
Wofa Kay, should I fight for the relationship or just walk away and start over? 😢

02/04/2026

BEFORE YOU READ, NO ONE SHOULD DM ME ABEG🙏. Transact in comments👏

Hello, share for me
The man I’ve been married to for a year now isn’t really being good to me. He’s not into women, he’s into men but he wanted me to agree to marry him to cover it up cuz of his reputation and family. He’s a politician, a bit popular here and successful. We had a formal agreement which includes giving him two kids before eventually filing for a divorce if I wanted. I am paid an amount of money monthly as well.
But it’s an open marriage, I’m free to sleep with anyone as long as I’m not getting pregnant for them, he wants to father his own kids. He’s also free to see his men.
He brings some home and I also bring mine home. He actually enjoys watching another man sleep with me, he said it’s a nice feeling so I let him watch mostly.
For some time now, that’s what’s been going on.
But we’ve made time to get intimate so I’m currently pregnant with his child.
I found out he’s hitting on my boyfriend, sending him money here and there, trying to get him to his bed. I can’t share a man with my so called husband, the guy knows he’s gay and is probably leading him on cuz of the money, but I don’t like it.
This has become an issue between the three of us. I’m also pregnant and shouldn’t be arguing or going through so much pain. You know, I agreed to this because I want the money, nothing else. But if we have to now fight over my man, I think it’s unfair.
I’m here because I need a man for him, someone he can do whatever he wants with and leave mine alone. He claims to be shy because of his reputation and role in society. Someone who can keep a secret because we don’t want any blackmaiills. I want to get him a man since he can’t do so. A nice looking guy who can do whatever my husband needs.

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02/04/2026

Can I also be assisted?
I have three kids for my husband, I don’t know if the third one is his or not but I’m very sure that the first two aren’t his because I was still sleeping with an old friend that I loved at that time. That guy was someone I wanted to marry, but things didn’t turn out well, so I married my husband instead.
Cuz of the love I had for him, I was still seeing him after my marriage, we broke up just last year after he left the country.
My marriage is eight years old. I was already pregnant with the first child when we got married. That child is actually the reason we rushed our wedding - though it wasn’t for my husband. I just made him believe it was his and we got married.
My husband may never conduct a DNA test, but the way DNA issues are trending online, I fear one day he may want to try it. He’s also someone that’s always online, reading these things and watching videos. He even says it as a joke that he would one day conduct a DNA TEST on the kids, but I stay confident and always encourage him to do it because I know that would make him feel I’ve been completely faithful and discourage the idea. I try not to act suspicious but it’s my fear.
I know I’m the one that messed up, but if you can extend your help to me, I’ll appreciate it - thank you 👏

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01/04/2026

Hello wofa, I'm going to say something most people won't.
I left a good man.
Not because he cheated. Not because he was cruel. Not because he did anything wrong. He loved me consistently, quietly, and completely — and I left anyway.
For years I told people "we just grew apart." Clean. Acceptable. Easy to digest at dinner parties.
The truth? I was terrified of being truly known by someone. So I sabotaged the safest love I'd ever had.
I dated chaos after that. Twice. Because chaos felt familiar and familiar felt like home, even when home was on fire.
Therapy taught me something ugly about myself — I didn't think I deserved the quiet kind of love. The showing-up kind. The boring Tuesday kind.
I'm 38 now. Single. Not sad about it anymore.
Because for the first time in my life, I'm learning to give myself the kind of love I kept running from.
The good man is happily married now. I genuinely smile when I see his family photos.
And me? I'm still a work in progress. But at least now I'm being honest about the blueprint.
Most of us don't leave bad relationships. We leave good ones and call it fate.
Tell me I'm not the only one. 👇

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01/04/2026

Let April be
A - Abide in God daily. (John 15:4)
P - Pray without ceasing (1 (Thessalonians 5:17)
R - Rest in the Lord (Psalm 37:7)
I - I can do all things in God ( Philippians 4:13)
L - Let the Lord take the Way (Proverbs 3:5-6)
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31/03/2026

Hi, anonymous Wofa Kay,
I’m 26, and I’m ashamed of what I’m about to say. I never imagined I would find myself in this kind of situation.
For the past 9 months, I’ve been involved with someone I should never have crossed paths with in that way—my cousin’s husband.
It didn’t start as something serious. He used to help me a lot—financially, emotionally, even advising me about life. I respected him because he always presented himself as responsible and caring.
One time, he asked me to accompany him on a short trip outside Accra for work. I didn’t think much of it because my cousin trusted him completely, and she even agreed for me to go.
During that trip, things changed. He started opening up about his marriage, saying he felt unappreciated and misunderstood. I listened, thinking I was just being supportive. But that night, he crossed a line.
I resisted at first, but everything happened so fast, and I didn’t know how to process it. After that, he kept reaching out, apologizing, then later acting like we had something special.
Before I realized it, I was deeply involved. He would call me all the time, take me out, and make me feel important in ways I hadn’t experienced before. I knew it was wrong, but I felt emotionally trapped.
Now everything has become complicated. He hasn’t left his wife, and he doesn’t plan to anytime soon. Meanwhile, I’m stuck in this secret that is eating me up inside.
Recently, I started having serious health concerns, and it made me realize how far things have gone. I began thinking about my cousin—someone who trusts me completely—and the kind of damage this could cause if the truth comes out.
I feel guilty every single day. I can’t even look at her the same way anymore.
Part of me wants to confess and end everything, but another part of me is scared of losing my family completely.
Wofa KAY, I’m confused and broken. How do I fix something like this without destroying everyone involved? 😔

24/03/2026

My name is Ruth, I’m 29 years old. My fiancé and I are planning our introduction and my father is insisting that my fiancé must bring a cow, 2 bags of rice, and pay for a new roof for our family house to show that he is capable. My fiancé is a teacher, he doesn't have that kind of money and my dad says if he can't do it, he's not 'man enough' for me. Do I take a loan to give my fiancé the money secretly, or how do I tell my father he's being unfair?
Please what's your take on this?

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