25/04/2026
I grew up in a dysfunctional family full of domestic abuse, women were beaten up all the time, by their husbands.
Infact, my mother got beaten by her own father for getting divorced from an abusive man.
In turn, I got beaten up and abandoned by my mother for non-compliance (behavior, marks, crushing on boys, and finally choosing divorce). My biological father abandoned me in wake of a male child just as an infant.
That’s how the pattern of control works (patriarchy, etc)
- Getting punished for making choices your self, your peace, your life, for being yourself and the pattern carries on.
While I tried to comply as a daughter, wife, daughter-in-law, mother for years, my spirit broke and died inside me. Until one fine day, my spirit rose and said, “THIS IS IT”.
A life of pure magic opened after that.
I build a deep relationship with myself, with my body, with my heart, with my spirit.
My relationship with other women healed.
My relationship with The Greater Mother - Nature became really deep. And, that changed everything. The Mother of all, accepts unconditionally, gives, supports, loves, forgives with all generosity, doesn’t ask for anything. That experience changed everything for me.
Today as a mother, accepting and supporting my child is the bare minimum. It’s not heroism, it’s parenting. And anytime someone says, you’re doing great as a parent, I ask myself “What am I doing to be called a great parent?”
To be honest, I am just being a mother, allowing love to be at the core. When I do that, nature takes over. It’s so natural to love a child when conditions are removed.
I am on a journey to discover what unconditional love is really as a human while life is happening constantly.
Reminding every parent here that providing for your child is the bare minimum. I see that you’re working really hard for it, however, it’s not special.
Accepting, loving, respecting, honoring them is!!
This process becomes natural when you love the child inside yourself first. It’s never late to start that journey, I am@cheering for you!!!
A loving world starts at home 💕