19/03/2021
A counsellee whose husband passed away last year, reached out to us for help and this is what she has to say. A really courageous lady to have gone through the whole grieving process with such grace and reminds us about the importance of reaching out for professional help when needed.
"Going back, 8 months ago, I approached Sneha Counseling Centre, suggested by my friend Revs with a deep grief over the sudden loss of my dear husband. I totally lost was unable to believe that he was no more (It is hard even to this day). I was given Roopa Madam’s no to take my session forward. I believe My God led me to her, to whom I vented all my grief, pain and the guilt of being helpless of not saving my husband. This guilt made me believe that I let him go off. Roopa madam heard me out and I vented out my thoughts, fears for almost two months. She suggested nothing, neither advised nor judged me but heard me out with patience and love. The insight she shared with me was enormous and this led me to understand that I was normal to be this way and the guilt vanished never to have come back. The language we shared during these sessions was compassion, love and respect. Later on, I discussed many areas of my life with her with ease and confident. I would look forward for Tuesdays to speak to her and would wait for the same with enthusiasm.
By sharing and discussing various areas like career, health, passion I gained more confidence, self-respect and love for myself. In fact my mother and friend expressed their thoughts and happiness about my positive change.
Today I am able to connect with my husband with all the days and memories shared and have accepted his physical absence and am confident of marching forward to fulfill my responsibilities with no stress.
I conclude that awareness & acceptance of counseling is needed in all circumstances. In a commercial world like ours where every hour is counted with money, I appreciate Sneha Counseling Center who have real wonderful counselors to cater to our grief and doubts FREE OF COST with no time limit.
Thank you madam for the love, warmth and respect you have given me making me stand head high."
