Relationship Chronicles With The Tikus

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Dear Singles, Do you know that the wrong person can look like an answered prayer? The devil's counterfeit!One of the big...
05/06/2026

Dear Singles, Do you know that the wrong person can look like an answered prayer? The devil's counterfeit!

One of the biggest lies singles tell themselves is: God must have send him or her because I pray. No!!
The devil is not stupid, he knows your prayer points too.

You prayed for a God fearing spouse so he sends someone who knows the Christian vocabulary.

You prayed for a bible believing partner so he sends someone who can quote the scripture faster than your pastor.

Many believers are dating sermons instead of studying character and this is a problem!

Does this person obey and live by Gods word? 🤔
See, The real test of spirituality is not how loudly they worship or quote God's word but it is how consistently they obey it. ..

Discernment is necessary, Seek for it!


Relationship Chronicles With The Tikus

Dear Single Sister, It is easier to hear God with your legs closed, You cannot hear a whisper in a storm.The noise that ...
04/06/2026

Dear Single Sister, It is easier to hear God with your legs closed, You cannot hear a whisper in a storm.

The noise that comes from intimacy outside of marriage is loud, making the voice of God difficult to hear. When Samson got involved with Delilah, he didn't lose his strength overnight. He first lost his discernment. He kept getting closer to danger untill he could no longer recognize it.

When your heart is not entangled in ungodly soul ties, It becomes easier to recognise red flags, easier to walk away from wrong relationships and easier to obey God when his answer is NO!

Dear Sister, Your future is worth protecting, your discernment is worth sharpening, Your womb spiritually and physically will carry only what God has ordained.

When your legs are closed, your ears are open. Your spirit settles, You begin to recognize his voice more clearly because there is no competing voice sleeping next to you.

You are not missing out beloved, You are being set apart!

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Dear Kingdom Singles, Stop praying for only spouse, pray about their motives. Ask God, Why is he/she in my life? What is...
03/06/2026

Dear Kingdom Singles, Stop praying for only spouse, pray about their motives.

Ask God, Why is he/she in my life?
What is he/her assignment around me?
Is she/he my spouse or a dangerous distraction?

See, some people are attracted to your destiny and not your heart, Some are interested in your potentials and not your purpose.

And when they come around you? They look like answered prayer, They look desirable.

The person may be prayerful, beautiful, financially stable inshut everything check on paper but they really may not be from God but from the devil.

Dont let your emotions be louder than your discernment.
Before giving anyone your heart, Ask God for clarity. Before you become emotionally attached, Ask God for direction.

Discernment tody can save you from a lot tomorrow.

Dear Singles, Are you dating your friend? You remember the phrase 'Marry your friend '? It means this person knows the u...
02/06/2026

Dear Singles, Are you dating your friend? You remember the phrase 'Marry your friend '? It means this person knows the unpolished version of me and still chooses to stay, no performance needed.

So below we will be sharing 10 reflection quiz. Answer honestly, If you have at least '8 YES' it means you are currently dating your friend. The quiz covers five(5) quiet dimensions of friendship

1. Can you tell this person something embarrassing about yourself without worrying they'll use it against you later?

2. Do you actually enjoy spending time with them not just when things are romantic or exciting, but on an ordinary, boring Tuesday?

3. After a disagreement, does the relationship feel like it returns to warmth or does something always seem to linger?

4. Does this person actually know you, your history, your fears, your weird tendencies, or mostly the curated version you present?

5. When you imagine a future 10 years from now, does including them in that picture feel natural or like a compromise?

6. Have you seen them handle something hard, grief, failure, conflict, or stress? Did what you saw make you more or less comfortable about a shared life?

7. Is silence between you two comfortable or does it feel like something that needs to be filled?

8. When you disagree, do they argue to understand or argue to win?

9. Do your values actually align on things like family, faith, money, or how to treat people, or do you keep hoping they'll come around?

10. Do you believe this person is genuinely on your side rooting for your growth, not threatened by it?

Your score isn't a verdict, It is a mirror. Notice the gap early and adress them with honest.
Selah!

HAPPY NEW MONTH TO THE SINGLES!This month:May your standards remain high.😅May your ex remain in the past.😋May "good morn...
01/06/2026

HAPPY NEW MONTH TO THE SINGLES!

This month:

May your standards remain high.😅
May your ex remain in the past.😋
May "good morning dear" not be the only qualification you look for.🥰
May every red flag appear in HD quality.😉
May every relationship that will waste your time expose itself quickly.🤗
May your village people stop using your relationship status as their monthly prayer point.🫣

And for those saying, "God when?"🙏

May God answer you.

But until then, may you stop refreshing wedding hashtags every weekend.

Happy New Month, family.
This month, choose purpose over pressure and growth over desperation.
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Baddies are getting married quickly than decent girls. Many people claim bad girls get married faster than the good and ...
31/05/2026

Baddies are getting married quickly than decent girls.
Many people claim bad girls get married faster than the good and decent girls. Some claim decent, disciplined women are overlooked while baddies are getting proposals quickly. Wow!

So are bad girls really getting married faster than decent girls?

Maybe, just maybe!

So, who exactly are marrying these bad girls? Hope they are not the same people who come here to tell us they travelled for a week for a buisness trip and their wives cheated with the next-door neighbour 🤣
Abi, the ones who complain that their wives still entertain their exes?
Or the ones that their wives will bring in her sugar daddy as the chairman of her wedding?
Or the wives who cannot submit to the boundaries of marriage?
Omg the list goes on

Many people are attracted to 'street behaviour' while dating because it looks exciting, and then they become shocked when that behaviour follows the person into marriage.

Well, while you are still counting who got married first, also ask who is building a marriage that will be standing ten years later 😉

Finally. Stop asking who is getting married faster or not rather ask what kind of marriage is the person building.
So what do you think? Do you think marriage changes people or it simply reveals who they really are?

31/05/2026

For a single person waiting on God for a spouse, the season of waiting can often feel like a raw, painful trial filled with loneliness, rejection, and unanswered prayers.However, God uses this exact "raw material" to shape you into a beautiful finished product, preparing both you and your future relationship for a grand purpose.

Still on tasting before marriage. Many men who say they believe in tasting before they purchase forget that human beings...
30/05/2026

Still on tasting before marriage.
Many men who say they believe in tasting before they purchase forget that human beings are not products to be tasted.

How many people will you keep tasting before you finally decide to marry? Who now marries the ones you've tasted and dumped?

Funny how some men that use 'tasting' to sleep around now prays for a pure wife for marriage. No, you would likely meet another who was also used by her ex and dumped after and the recycling continues.

We cannot mock purity and at the same rant that there are no more virgins, rant about trust issues, rant that there are so much immorality when we also contribute to the problem.

The problem is not that pure women are scarce instead too many people have been 'tasted' by people who never intended to stay.

Whats your thoughts? Tasting before marriage or not?

We preach no s*x before marriage, then turn around to say 'There are no more virgins' LOL Wait, who exactly is out there...
29/05/2026

We preach no s*x before marriage, then turn around to say 'There are no more virgins' LOL

Wait, who exactly is out there making sure there are none left? Who created this reality?

We glorify testing before marriage, mock purity, and then complain that purity is disappearing and to think that some of these persons belong to the church.

Some pressure people into sin, then reject and condemn them for the same sin they encouraged.kai
We can do better!! The hypocrisy is too loud

The church's power on this issue or any moral issue is not in how loudly we proclaim a standard. See, the world is not rejecting our message because it hasn't heard it but Rejecting it because it has watched us and found the gap between our words and our lives too wide to take us seriously.

The mirror must come before the microphone.
This is never a call to shame but a honest call to reckoning. It is a call to stop submitting conviction to culture. Lets do better ❤️


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Dear Men Lets talk! This might be uncomfortable but it is the raw truth.Please have something doing that brings income b...
27/05/2026

Dear Men Lets talk! This might be uncomfortable but it is the raw truth.

Please have something doing that brings income before you find a wife. We are not talking about owning mansion, fleet of cars or fat account balance, No!
At least build something, Get a job, start a buisness, learn a skill, build something with your hands. Inshut sort yourself out first before you go get the girl!

You know why? Marriage is a huge responsibility. Feelings dont pay school fees or cover hospital bills o, feelings dosent buy food. When bills arrive and there is silence all the time, it kills love!

A man who spends 8 hours at the altar praying for money but refuses to spend 2 hours building capacity is not spiritual. He is escaping responsibility

God is not allergic to hardwork. The same bible that says pray without ceasing also says if a man will not work, He shall not eat.
Ponder on this, Think about it through and through.


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