Journey with Lizzie

Journey with Lizzie Hey! Welcome to my space, where I share my journey to healing. This is a safe space for you to heal.
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Join me as we embrace growth, find peace, and celebrate hope, strength, and joy along the way..

๐–๐ž ๐ญ๐š๐ฅ๐ค ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌโ€ฆ ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ "๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ " ๐†๐จ๐? When childhood trauma breaks your world, itโ€™s easy ...
17/03/2026

๐–๐ž ๐ญ๐š๐ฅ๐ค ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌโ€ฆ ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ "๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ " ๐†๐จ๐?

When childhood trauma breaks your world, itโ€™s easy to look at the Father and ask: "If Youโ€™re all-powerful, why didn't You stop it?"

We often get stuck in our healing because weโ€™re subconsciously holding a grudge against Heaven.

But "forgiving" God isn't about Him being guiltyโ€”itโ€™s about reconciling your heart. Itโ€™s moving from "Why did You let this happen?" to "Iโ€™m tired of this wall between us." ๐Ÿงฑ๐Ÿ”จ

Healing from the past usually requires us to stop projecting our earthly trauma onto our Heavenly Father.
He didn't cause your hurt, but He is the only one who can fully heal the aftermath.

๐ƒ๐ข๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ข๐ง ๐ฎ๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐  ๐˜๐Ž๐”๐‘๐’๐„๐‹๐… ๐๐จ๐ฐ๐ง?We think unforgiveness punishes the...
15/03/2026

๐ƒ๐ข๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ข๐ง ๐ฎ๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐  ๐˜๐Ž๐”๐‘๐’๐„๐‹๐… ๐๐จ๐ฐ๐ง?

We think unforgiveness punishes the person who hurt us.
It does not.

They are living their life.
Going about their day.
Sleeping at night.
Moving forward.

And we are sitting with a wound we keep reopening ; replaying what they did, rehearsing the pain, reliving the moment โ€” over and over again.

Unforgiveness feels like holding someone in a prison.
But here is the truthโ€ฆโ€ฆ.

๐’€๐’๐’– ๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’Š๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’„๐’†๐’๐’ ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’Ž.

And you are the only one holding the key.
The person who abused you as a child is not locked up by your unforgiveness. YOU are.

The parent who was never there is not stuck. YOU are.
The person who betrayed your trust is not bound. YOU are.

Forgiveness is not saying what they did was okay. It is not pretending it did not happen. It is not even about reconciling with them.

๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฌ๐—ข๐—จ๐—ฅ๐—ฆ๐—˜๐—Ÿ๐—™ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฑ.

You have carried it long enough.

It was heavy when they put it on you.
It is heavier now that you have been carrying it alone.
You deserve to put it down.
Not for them. For you.

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