Journey with Lizzie

17/03/2026

𝐖𝐞 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬… 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 "𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠" 𝐆𝐨𝐝?

When childhood trauma breaks your world, it’s easy to look at the Father and ask: "If You’re all-powerful, why didn't You stop it?"

We often get stuck in our healing because we’re subconsciously holding a grudge against Heaven.

But "forgiving" God isn't about Him being guilty—it’s about reconciling your heart. It’s moving from "Why did You let this happen?" to "I’m tired of this wall between us." 🧱🔨

Healing from the past usually requires us to stop projecting our earthly trauma onto our Heavenly Father.
He didn't cause your hurt, but He is the only one who can fully heal the aftermath.

15/03/2026

𝐃𝐢𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐮𝐧𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧?

We think unforgiveness punishes the person who hurt us.
It does not.

They are living their life.
Going about their day.
Sleeping at night.
Moving forward.

And we are sitting with a wound we keep reopening ; replaying what they did, rehearsing the pain, reliving the moment — over and over again.

Unforgiveness feels like holding someone in a prison.
But here is the truth…….

𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒄𝒆𝒍𝒍 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎.

And you are the only one holding the key.
The person who abused you as a child is not locked up by your unforgiveness. YOU are.

The parent who was never there is not stuck. YOU are.
The person who betrayed your trust is not bound. YOU are.

Forgiveness is not saying what they did was okay. It is not pretending it did not happen. It is not even about reconciling with them.

𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗲𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗱𝗶𝗱.

You have carried it long enough.

It was heavy when they put it on you.
It is heavier now that you have been carrying it alone.
You deserve to put it down.
Not for them. For you.

31/10/2025

25/09/2025

Hey friends! I just started a YouTube channel called Healing Starts Here.

If you’ve ever struggled with pain from the past, a broken home, or difficult relationships, this channel is for you. 💔➡️💖 Together, we’ll walk the journey of soul healing, inner peace, and learning to let go of what no longer serves us.

Please check it out, subscribe, and share — your support means so much! 💕

http://www.youtube.com/-d3b?sub_confirmation=1

Welcome to a space for healing and growth. If you’re navigating life after a painful past, especially from a broken or dysfunctional home, you’re not alone. Here, we explore soul healing, finding inner peace, and releasing what no longer serves you.

24/08/2025

I’ve been hurt in ways words can barely explain.
Betrayed by people I trusted.
Wounded by those I thought loved me.

But the deepest scar came when someone I called a friend took what I never gave"my innocence"ignoring my pleas, ignoring my pain.
And when I needed help the most, no one came.
Not even family.

I was left to carry the weight alone.
Broken.
Traumatized.
Depressed.
Alone.

But in my darkest hour...
something changed.
I met Jesus.
I surrendered my pain to Him.
I gave the Holy Spirit access to the parts of me I had buried.

And slowly, forgiveness began to grow where bitterness once lived.
Healing started where hurt had settled.

If you’ve ever been deeply wounded… know this:
You are not alone. Healing is possible. And forgiveness, even after the deepest pain, is real.

Your past doesn’t have to define your future.
Healing starts here.

23/08/2025

I will be sharing a little of my journey over the next three days, and I believe it will help someone.
You will find reasons to let go of the pain and hurt.

………………………………..
I struggled to forgive those who had hurt me ,those who caused me pain.

The more I tried, the weaker, more broken, and more wounded I felt.

My parents’ separation hurt me deeply.
I had to take on responsibilities at a very young age.
I dropped out of school because there was no money to pay my fees.

I lived with different people who had promised to train and support me, but they never did.
Instead, I was mistreated.
I lived with the pain of rejection, no one wanted to be my friend.
I was depressed from a very young age, and so much more...

Wait for tomorrow’s drop…..

17/08/2025

𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐌𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐒𝐚𝐲 𝐘𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐉𝐞𝐬𝐮𝐬

Real healing begins when you invite Christ into your life and receive the baptism of the Holy Ghost. 🙏

You can't heal from what you don't even realize has hurt you. It's the Spirit of God that opens your eyes, reveals hidden wounds, and leads you into true freedom.

But how can the Spirit work in you if you haven’t given Him access?

✨ It starts with surrender.
✨ It starts with saying “Yes, Jesus.”
✨ It starts with making room for the Holy Spirit to move.

So we ask you today:
Have you accepted the call to surrender it all to Jesus?
Have you made space in your heart for the Spirit of God?

If your answer is "YES"
🙌 Congratulations!
You’ve just taken the most powerful step toward your healing.

09/08/2025

𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲…….
I always advise that you talk to someone about your pain, your childhood trauma…….
But it’s also very important to share this story with those that really care, understand (even if they didn’t experience such), and are ready to walk you through your healing process.

Not everyone cares; some want to hear your story for a wrong reason, and instead of hastening your healing, it worsens it, and it brings regret and pain.

Be careful who you confide in…

15/07/2025

🌧𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐝𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞? 𝐀𝐦 𝐈 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡?

💔𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐝𝐨 𝐈 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞?

I know this pain.

I’ve asked these same questions, cried those same tears.

You give your heart, yet somehow, it’s never enough for them to stay.

And slowly, you start to believe the lie:
“𝑴𝒂𝒚𝒃𝒆 𝑰’𝒎 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒃𝒍𝒆𝒎.”

However, the truth is that the love you are waiting for begins within yourself.

✨ Learn to love your own company.
✨ Speak gently to your heart.
✨Become the one who never leaves you.

Because when you do, something shifts…You stop chasing love and start attracting it.
You stop begging to be chosen and realize you are already enough.

🌿 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳.
📍𝗥𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲.
📍𝗥𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗻𝗼𝘄.
𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗦𝗧𝗔𝗥𝗧𝗦 𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗘.

06/07/2025

*I will never marry*

Sometimes, we don’t realize how much our past is shaping us,how it influences the way we think, how we love, how we see life.

It’s not until we take a moment to look back that we begin to understand just how much we’ve been carrying.

This is just one chapter of my story.

My parents’ separation left a mark on me that ran deeper than I understood at the time.

It didn’t just break a home,it shaped the way I related to the opposite s*x, and how I viewed relationships altogether.

As a child, I made a quiet vow to myself:

*I will never marry*

I didn’t want my future children to feel the kind of pain I felt.
I didn’t want to give any man the chance to hurt me or take me for granted.

But I was speaking from a place of pain.

Everything began to shift when I opened myself up to healing.
The moment I allowed God to begin working in me, something beautiful happened.
He gently showed me that marriage isn't the problem.
My past was painful, yes,but it doesn’t have to be my future.
Just because my parents’ story ended in separation doesn’t mean mine will. Healing gave me a new perspective. And in that light, I saw hope where I once saw fear.

Healing is a journey—but it starts the moment we’re willing to look within.