The Held House

16/07/2026

06/07/2026

When you submit as a woman, you respond to God, not your husband. Your husband does not need to earn your submission.

03/07/2026

You must be international about every relationship. Know why you're going in and always ask the right questions. You are the only one who can decide whether you want to stay or not

02/07/2026

The decision of who your child marries is their own first. As a Parent, you can guide your children through godly counsel and prayers. You can't decide who is best for your child just from their looks alone.

01/07/2026

Godliness will never go out of fashion. If you have strayed, find your way back. God's standards will not change for anyone

30/06/2026

You may not be able to marry all kinds of people. But you may not know who is right for you until you begin to talk. Don't be in a hurry to marry, that you forget to know who you are getting married to. Courtship is for knowing.

29/06/2026

If you desire to honor God with your body, you must learn what to do. Even if you dishonored your body in the past, it's a good time to find your way back home.

22/06/2026

Life is in phases, so is marriage. You may not feel attracted to your spouse,but marriage transcends feelings and emotions. Your commitment to love and to hold,the vows you made before God are not just mere words, they are bonds that should not be broken regardless of how you feel.

15/06/2026

My husband wants a DNA test."
This conversation is bigger than the test itself.
Agreeing to a DNA test doesn't automatically mean you have something to hide. But in many cases, the request raises an important question: What happened to the trust in this relationship?
If a spouse suddenly doubts the paternity of a child without any reason, the issue may not just be DNA—it may be fear, insecurity, past experiences, or a breakdown in trust.
A DNA test may provide answers about paternity, but it cannot, by itself, heal a wounded relationship.
The bigger conversation should be: How do we rebuild trust, security, and openness in our marriage?
What are your thoughts? If your spouse asked for a DNA test, would you be offended, or would you agree to it?
👇 Let's discuss respectfully.