The Held House

29/08/2026

Would you abandon your life for an opportunity abroad if your spouse gets a visa immediately after your marriage without a prior knowledge?

26/08/2026

26/08/2026

Is every surprise a good surprise?
A casual gift and a major life decision can both be called “surprises,” but are they really the same thing? What happens when the surprise involves something as significant as buying a house for your spouse without discussing it first?
We had an interesting conversation about surprises in marriage, boundaries, communication, and when a surprise can actually become a problem.
Watch the full conversation on the Soluchi & Ceejay YouTube channel.
What do you think, is every surprise a good surprise?

15/08/2026

WHAT MEN WANT vs WHAT WOMEN WANT IN MARRIAGE

We put 3 men and 3 women in the same room and asked a simple question:

What do you REALLY want from your spouse?

What followed was almost 2 hours of honest, intense and sometimes uncomfortable conversation.

We talked about love, respect, communication, intimacy, submission, expectations, appreciation, emotional needs, responsibility and the things men and women often struggle to say to each other.

And trust us… both sides had something to say.

But here's the question:

Do men and women actually want different things in marriage, or do we simply express the same needs differently?

Watch the full conversation and decide for yourself.

: What is the ONE thing you need most from your wife? : What is the ONE thing you need most from your husband?

Tag someone you know will have something to say about this one.

06/07/2026

When you submit as a woman, you respond to God, not your husband. Your husband does not need to earn your submission.

03/07/2026

You must be international about every relationship. Know why you're going in and always ask the right questions. You are the only one who can decide whether you want to stay or not

02/07/2026

The decision of who your child marries is their own first. As a Parent, you can guide your children through godly counsel and prayers. You can't decide who is best for your child just from their looks alone.

01/07/2026

Godliness will never go out of fashion. If you have strayed, find your way back. God's standards will not change for anyone