21/03/2026
Let me say this to those of you who feel called to speak to the public, teach, counsel, or influence people.
Please donāt rush out.
Take your time to grow in the secret place first, studying and getting trained.
Before the camera.
Before the stage.
Before the microphone.
Become first.
Many people see the public part of my work today and assume it just started recently.
But I have been counseling people for over 15 years.
During those years, I was heavily restricted both by the Holy Spirit and by my first mentor.
My mentor insisted that I stay in the place of preparation and allow the Holy Spirit groom me. Those years I studied eeh, paid for uncountable courses.
There were many speaking invitations that came during that time. Some of them were ready to pay well.
Some platforms would have given me a lot of exposure.
But I declined them.
Sometimes I even accepted an invitation and later had to call back and cancel because the Holy Spirit said, āNot this one.ā.
For almost 15 years, I did not accept speaking engagements.
Not because opportunities were not there, but because it was not time yet.
Even when I eventually started speaking publicly, I didnāt charge at first because that was the instruction I received. Later, when it was time to start charging, there was peace about it.
So when I say donāt rush, I say it from experience.
These days, many people carry a camera, press record, and start talking about things they themselves have not truly understood or lived.
And when someone speaks without depth, it shows.
But when someone has spent time being prepared, healed, equipped, and groomed, that depth also shows.
Your voice will carry more weight when it is coming from a place of process, growth, and healing.
So if you feel called to speak, teach, counsel, or influence people, donāt be in a hurry to showcase yourself.
Allow yourself to be built first.
Because when it is truly time, what is inside you will speak louder than any microphone.
Meanwhile spend that money and enroll in yourself in that course.
Get yourself a Mentor, eee get why.
*xcoah
*xilogist