17/09/2024
Listen up, Men!
No woman in her early 30s should be crying about not being married. By that age, she’s just dealing with the consequences of the choices she made in her 20s. Look, when women are in their prime, their early 20s, men—serious, high-value men—are coming left and right, ready to marry. But what do these ladies do? They turn their noses up and start saying things like:
1. “I’m too young.”
2. “Who cares about marriage?”
3. “I’m focused on my career.”
4. “I want to make money first.”
5. “Marriage is full of problems.”
While they claim they don’t have time for marriage, they sure have time for multiple guys. It’s funny, right? They’re too young to settle down but not too young to hop from one relationship to the next, enjoying the attention and affection of men without any real commitment. No problem—time is ticking.
By the time these women hit 25-27, reality comes knocking. Their parents start asking:
1. “Don’t you have anyone yet?”
2. “Are you not planning to get married?”
3. “Can’t you see all your mates are getting married?”
4. “Don’t you know you’re getting old?”
The parents don’t even know the half of it—on the outside, she may still look good, but on the inside? There’s nothing left. She’s used up emotionally, mentally, and spiritually from all the meaningless relationships. Now, with the pressure from family building up, she starts reflecting on her own situation. She sees her friends getting married and suddenly, the same girl who was all about “fun” starts thinking:
1. “Does this mean I’m old enough to marry?”
2. “Hmmm, how should I go about it?”
3. “This guy I’m with isn’t even serious.”
And then, here comes the switch-up. Now, it’s no longer about fun—it’s about God’s timing. “God knows the best,” she says. Really? Now you’re blaming God for the situation YOU created? Suddenly, it’s “God’s time is the best” after wasting her own prime years. Now, she’s desperate, looking for serious men to marry, not boys to have fun with. Ladies don't be foolish
