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24/05/2026

You are saying Yes to a bundle of mindset when you decide to marry. It's more than their face.

23/05/2026

Men are NOT polygamous by nature.

You selfish men should stop telling yourselves lies to entresh your selfish agenda.

No woman would gladly want to share a man who truly loves her with another woman.

But men force this thing on women especially where religion allows it.

Polygamy favours only one person: the man.

And that's why those in it argue all they want for it.

Many women in such homes simply endure it because of culture, religion, fear, finances, or concern for their children.

But enduring something is not the same as enjoying it.

A marriage built on competition, jealousy, emotional neglect, and revenge can hardly reflect love.

Some polygamists may provide financially, but provision alone is not the meaning of marriage.

They know deep down that they have an inordinate affection, lust and they lack commitment.

It is a selfish thing.

It lacks commitment.

Sunday Anani

22/05/2026

I asked: How did you know you were in a wrong relationship?

Adepeju Oladapo commented:

When he was angry with his mum over the phone and spoke to her in a rude manner, I asked, 'What happened? Why did you speak to mum like that?'

'Is she your mum?' That was his response.

Right there, I knew pe it cannot work. Because one day, my mother sef go collect wotowoto.

22/05/2026

I asked: How did you know you were in a wrong relationship?

Pelumi Oluwawemimo Fatoki commented:

(It's a) very funny story.

He told me I have a caterpillar teeth to my face and also mentioned i have a bow leg which was the first time I will be hearing that in my life 😀

I told him I was not happy about what he said.

He said he was joking that if I can’t take such jokes it means I can’t even marry him then.

I became insecure about my teeth and I started looking for a hospital to get a brace which I didn’t get later.

I ended the relationship thou he apologised genuinely years later for what he said.

22/05/2026

How did you find out you were in a wrong relationship?

Mind sharing the story?

Let's learn.

I can repost your comment.

21/05/2026

Can a p000rn addict be sxxually healthy in marriage?

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21/05/2026

Does marriage have to make you lose your identity, mind and ambition?

The answer is NO.

Watch and learn.

Sunday Anani

20/05/2026

Tomisin Debby Awokoyi commented on my post about good marriages.

Let me share mine when though my hubby is late

He was the key that locks my anger mode

He tapped me anytime, any day and anywhere tappable.

He was a good chef that I enjoyed him doing the cooking most.

My late hubby never had sad moment against me, na me dey always just baby it.

The fact that he always agreed and accepted anytime I say, I am tired to cook. He either took over or we ate outside.

I didn't serve whenever I cooked, he did that because I hate dishing food.

He carried our way of washing his clothes to my parent's place anytime we had an occasion.

He would even fetch water from the well in the big drum (my grandma go shout tire, I no dey look her face)

He was transparent in his income and spending. If my late hubby had 20k, he would say the actual amount but will tell me, "I can only give you 15k because I need to sort this."

He wasn't a bossy, soldier or alpha man geng'.

That guy really made marriage easy for me, Abeg because we did roll a lot like friends to the extent our kids did call him by his nickname "Heskay" if simplicity and humility was a person, it would be my late hubby.

Continue to REST IN PEACE OLASUNKANMI ADEBAYO MI ❣️❤️
The husband of my YOUTH ❤️❣️❤️

20/05/2026

Our Office Cleaner's Request

By Sunday Anani

In January, our office cleaner resumed later than the official resumption date.

I was told that was how she used to give herself more holidays after the festive break.

Before she arrived, we replaced her.

She begged me but I was not the only one who made the decision.

The other company we share space with also agreed to let her go so her case was sealed.

Before then, the HR Manager of the other company we share the complex with told me about her gate man’s wife who was looking for a job.

The woman – A Northerner – was brought in to replace the former cleaner who had become a boss to herself.

Sanki (not her real name) does good job.

She has a baby but she does her job well.

I recently got a message from the other company that Sanki is heavily pregnant and she won’t be able to continue the cleaning job.

The last time I saw her, I did not even know she was pregnant.

She wears this long hijab from her head downwards so I could not tell.

But do you know what she requested?

She does not want to lose the job so she asked that we allow her husband take over the cleaning job for now.

She intends to resume after her delivery.

I was asked if I was fine with Sanki’s request.

Aha.

Why not?

These are two intentional people who are doing all they can to keep their family going.

There are two serious and mutually supportive people.

The husband will resume work in her wife’s stead soon.

The wife will man the gate at home.

They are both winners.

Marriages do not fail or succeed because the people in it are highly-placed, wealthy or educated.

Marriages fail or succeed based on the unintentionality or intentionality of those in it.

These Northerners are intentional.

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20/05/2026

On a morning workout with the wife of my youth Oluwatìmíléhìn

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With the Arsenal victory, let's now go on to take the Champions League too. 😄😄

20/05/2026

Virgin ladies?

They have this question in mind.

What to expect as a virgin going into marriage.

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