25/08/2026
Someone here said her mother broke her virginity with pepper and you are screaming, it may or may not be true but you have you asked yourself some very critical questions…
You may not have manhandled or brutally assaulted your daughter but you were absent when someone else did…
You were absent when that family member or friend starting touching them inappropriately…
You chose career and money pursuits, you left them for your mother and relatives “for a while” so you can balance and then come for them…but
Now you have exposed them to all of manner of abuse which they won’t discuss with you because obviously you chose what mattered to you!!
Don’t scream that another woman is mean when you are the same..
If you must give birth be ready to make the sacrifices that comes with it whether married or single!!!
When you leave very early in the morning and come back very late at night during their formative years, present in person but absent in mother role….you are failing them. They won’t tell you but they know…
Stop leaving these children and hoping that somehow they ll turn out well…
You have made the money, you are now famous, you are buying their love now with money but the truth is that you lost them…
It may take many years but someday they will remember what your priorities were!!!
All the years they suffered verbal, physical and emotional abuse because you were absent, those years cannot be wiped away with your visa, dollar and pounds!!!!
The world is evil, protect your children. Be present, even if it’s garri soak it together, there are Igbo women everywhere🏃♀️➡️🏃♀️➡️😎 nobody can look after your children like you!!
This post is not for men, mothers don’t let your children grow and hate the world because you were not there to protect them…
Be a mother hen….fight for your children…
Before you take your children abroad for school do you have what it takes to visit often??
Before you leave them here to Japa think am well!!
Don’t join the bandwagon…..be a mother hen
A child left to himself brings shame to his mother” Proverbs 29:15.