Sandy Millar - Celebrant & End of Life Doula

16/08/2026

Join me on Friday at the Onehunga Community Library for a Death Cafe - no agenda, just interesting conversation over a cuppa.

06/08/2026

Every couple is unique, every wedding is special ❤️

05/08/2026

Most people have a will, but have you completed your Advance Care Plan or ACP? End-of-life doulas like me are experts in coaching you through this important document, which covers all-important decisions, before it's too late. While the document is freely available (see link in the image), professional services fees apply. Give me a call on 021 189 5597 to learn more about this crucial document, and how it can make life easier for you and your whānau when the time comes. I live locally, and I'm happy to come to you.

03/08/2026

Are you curious about what happens at a Death Cafe? Come and join me at the Library after you've done your late night shopping, and have a chat and a cuppa with others who are interested too.

31/07/2026

To make it easier to follow what you're interested in, I've split my Insta accounts. Excuse cross-postings and hang on while I shuffle things around. I'd still love your support and comments 💙

27/07/2026

People like me are gearing up for Dying Matters Week in September, when there are nationwide events from book displays, to workshops about wills and Advance Care Plans, to Death Cafes and podcasts. See what's happening in your part of Aotearoa, and remember to check back regularly, as new things are being added all the time. https://gowithgrace.nz/dyingmatters/

24/07/2026

When English isn't enough ...

23/07/2026

I'm gearing up for Dying Matters Week in September, overseen by the amazing team at Go with Grace, based in Whangarei. If you're keen to participate, head to their Events page. Or if you're a celebrant, doula, or health-care professional who has something to offer, let me know. This year's theme is Shaping Your Legacy. (Here's a photo from 1997 when I had no idea what lay ahead ...) https://gowithgrace.nz/dyingmatters/

16/07/2026

Great to see Death Cafes - a collab between Honohono Tātou Katoa and Auckland Libraries - getting attention from RNZ. This is my gorgeous friend and colleague, volunteer Allison Bartlett-Morley, with a couple of people who are regulars at her gathering in Birkenhead. But you don't need to come every month. Pop along when you're able to make it, for a cuppa and korero in a safe environment.

There's no agenda, no prayers, just a small circle of people talking about death and dying. "You can't deny it when it's staring you in the face."