29/06/2026
While completing the Dulwich Centre What is Narrative Practice? certification, one principle stayed with us deeply:
“The person is not the problem, the problem is the problem.”
In mentoring and supervision, we see how often health coaches quietly internalise challenge:
“I should have handled that better.”
“I’m not confident enough.”
“I’m not doing this right.”
Narrative practice teaches us to externalise difficulty, not personalise it. Just as the course used examples like “the black dog” of depression or “wolf monster tempers,” we are reminded that challenges can be named and examined without becoming identity.
At Ko Wai Coaching Collective, we support coaches to separate themselves from the moment, the case, the doubt, or the ethical tension.
This reduces shame.
It restores clarity.
It protects professional confidence.
You remain whole, capable, and worthy, even when the work feels complex.
If you are navigating self-doubt, difficult clients, or reflective tension, Ko Wai offers mentoring, supervision, and advocacy that supports you wherever you are on your journey.
What helps you separate yourself from a challenging coaching moment? We would love to hear what works for you.
We have written a full article exploring how narrative practice shapes our approach at Ko Wai Coaching Collective. The link is in the comments.