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Reaxiom Ben Harris has helped hundreds of people discover freedom and restoration in their faith, relationships, employment and life in general. Hence "Re-Axiom"
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No "fluff" or cliches, just straight talk and practical tools for change. Relationships can be complex, but more often than not the solutions to the issues that people are struggling with are quite simple. My goal is to see through life's noise, address the core misappropriated beliefs and give you practical ways to see the change you are looking for. My area of expertise is interpersonal dynamics. Whether this be in intimate, engaged, married or divorced couples, family relationships, friendships or work place culture, I will help you in finding healthy beliefs, boundaries and balance. "Reaxiom" - What does that mean? Axiom:
"a statement accepted as true as the basis for argument or inference." We create these axioms throughout our life and then filter what we experience, what we believe and what we project through these axioms. It therefore stands to reason, that if these axioms happen to be incorrect, we will find conflict and failure in our relationships and life in general. My approach is to help you discover these axioms and replace them with more accurate, healthy and truthful ones.

01/07/2026

Should You Agree, Even If What They Are Saying Is Wrong?

You can validate someone's feelings without agreeing with their conclusion.
A person's feelings can be valid without every conclusion being correct.







29/06/2026

Why Your Husband Is Ignoring Your Feelings

More often than not, a husband is not ignoring your emotions, he is in fact trying his best to help you. A husband's attempt to solve is an attempt to heal, not hurt.







26/06/2026

"A closed backpack does not mean an empty backpack."

Understanding emotional processing differences changes how couples approach vulnerability.





22/06/2026

Why do people who are married drift apart?

Getting married is not a destination, it is commitment to build something beautiful. People grow apart because they fail to continue to pursue one another- they refuse to continue to learn about each other. A Good marriage is not found, it is built.

19/06/2026

Could This Be Why You Are Not Connecting With Your Partner?
You know that vulnerability is key to a great marriage—but is it enough? Without connection, even the most vulnerable moments can feel hollow. In this video, I explain how you can foster deep, lasting connection with your partner by inviting them into your vulnerable spaces. Don’t assume they know what you need; communicate it, and build the intimacy you both deserve.

17/06/2026

Do You Love Them, But Are No Longer In Love With Them?
Ever feel like you’re "not in love" anymore? You're not alone. The real difference between a standard relationship and a deep, marital one is intimacy—and building it requires being vulnerable in ways that might feel uncomfortable. If you want to rekindle your connection, stop playing it safe and start exploring each other’s vulnerability. True intimacy lives in those moments where you risk opening up.

15/06/2026

How to Start Doing What Your Wife Wants More Than Anything.
Discover the simple key to emotional closeness in your relationship. Drawing on the Gottman Institute’s concept of "bids for attention," I explain how small, everyday actions can either strengthen or weaken your connection. It’s not about grand gestures; it’s about acknowledging your partner's bids. Make it a habit and see the difference it makes in your relDiscover the simple key to emotional closeness in your relationship. Drawing on the Gottman Institute’s concept of "bids for attention," I explain how small, everyday actions can either strengthen or weaken your connection. It’s not about grand gestures; it’s about acknowledging your partner's bids. Make it a habit and see the difference it makes in your rel !

A lot of people believe marriage problems happen because they chose the wrong person.But often the deeper issue is not t...
13/06/2026

A lot of people believe marriage problems happen because they chose the wrong person.

But often the deeper issue is not the person they chose...

It is the person they never took the time to understand.


12/06/2026

**The real reason your spouse stops listening**

Many people think their spouse stops listening because they don't care.

In reality, people often shut down when they feel powerless to provide the solution they think is being demanded of them.

09/06/2026

The silent killer that in a relationship.🤫
Men often seek peace over everything else in a relationship. This in turn can often result in husbands thinking as long as there is no arguing or complaints, then there is no problems. This leads to an emotional disconnect which then continues to grow into emotional distance. Peace at all costs is no peace at all.

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